Conesus, NY:  Unexpectedly on April 23, 2021 at age 22.  Survived by his parents Luke and Kimberly (Edgar) Faulkenberry of Conesus; brother Aaron Faulkenberry (Brianna Herron); grandparents, Stephen and Marcia Faulkenberry of Conesus and Clair and Linda Edgar of Fairport; many loving aunts, uncles, and cousins. Also survived by the love of his life Madi Dorey, her caring family, and many dear friends.

Family and friends may call on Thursday, April 29^th, from 4-7pm at the Kevin W. Dougherty Funeral Home Inc., 21 Big Tree Street, Rte 15 & 20A, Livonia, NY.  Matthew’s Funeral Service will be held at 10am on Friday, April 30^th, at Christ Community Church, 26 Center Street, Geneseo, NY 14454.  Burial to follow at Arnold Cemetery, Conesus, NY.  In lieu of flowers memorial contributions may be made in Matthew’s memory to Christ Community Church at the address above and earmarked for Young Life, which is a ministry for middle and high school students or C4Life, which is a ministry for college students.  To send a condolence or share a memory please visit:  www.doughertyfuneralhomes.com

Honeoye:  At age 89, June passed away peacefully on Wednesday, April 21, 2021 at Strong Memorial Hospital in Rochester, NY.  She was born in Rochester to the late John and Viola Votra and is also predeceased by her husband Emerson “Slim” Betterley, her daughter; Rebecca Clar and her grandson; Gary Hamilton.  Survived by her children; Cathy (Bill) Reddout, Cynthia Rowley, Connie (Fred) Lopacki, Roxanne Hanford, John “Duke” Betterley (Karen Ireland), and Chari Miller, her grandchildren; Bill (Yvonne) Clar Jr., Brady (Emi) Clar, Andy (Carrie) Reddout, Sarah (Tom) Morey, Chad (Lanelle) Rowley, Michael Lopacki (Nicole Lindsey), Joe (Danielle) Lopacki, Miranda (Dylan) Young, Mason Betterley (Gracie Kyle), and Jesse Miller (Kiana VanEpps), along with her 6 great grandchildren.

A private memorial service will take place at the Kevin W. Dougherty Funeral Home in Honeoye.  Interment will also be held privately at Lakeview Cemetery in Honeoye.  To share a memory or a condolence, please visit:  www.doughertyfuneralhomes.com.

Pittsford/Conesus Lake: At age 92, Marian passed away peacefully on Monday, April 19, 2021 at the MM Ewing Continuing Care Center in Canandaigua. She was born in Rochester, NY to the late Walter C. and Mildred I. (Hamp) Kruger.  Marian was formerly of Pittsford, NY and Conesus Lake, NY.  She was predeceased by her husband; Alan J. Wander, her son-in-law; Terry Conking, her grandson; David Conking, her siblings; Phyllis (Eugene) Nagel, Walter (Deloris) Kruger, Mildred Johnston, Harold (Norma) Kruger, David Kruger, Edna (Richard) Mason, Bertram Wander, Rosabell (Warren) Preston, Joseph (Mary) Wander & Jacob (Barbara) Wander. Survived by her children; Melissa Conking of Pittsford, NY, Alan (Deborah) Wander of Katy, TX, Melinda (Francis) DeClerck of Groveland, NY, Joseph (Carol) Wander of Wadsworth, OH, Margaret (Thomas) Dunn of Canadice, NY, Thomas (Betty Jean) Wander of Conesus, NY & Marilou (George) Jones of Knoxville, TN; her grandchildren; Jennifer (Timothy) Wildrick, Paul (Jessica) Wander, Heather (Robert) Murphy, Kelly (Ryan) Whelan, Curtis (Erin) Wander, Laura Dunn & Amanda (Jarrett) Fonda; her great grand-children Brianne Madison Wildrick, Brandon Michael Wildrick, Teagan Olivia Murphy, Lillian Rose Wander, John Alan Whelan & Mackenzie Mae Whelan; her brother-in-law; Neil Johnston of Clearwater, FL, as well as several nieces & nephews. Marian’s home was always overflowing with love for all that entered. She will be greatly missed.

Friends and Family are invited to call from 3PM to 6PM on Monday, April 26, 2021 at the Kevin W. Dougherty Funeral Home, 8624 Main Street in Honeoye, NY.  A Funeral Mass will take place at 1PM on April 27, 2021 at St. Louis Church, 64 S Main Street in Pittsford, NY. If you would like to attend virtually, a livestream of Marian’s funeral Mass will be available at https://stlouischurch.org/live. A video archive of the funeral will be available the following day at www.facebook.com/stlouischurchpittsford/videos.  Interment will immediately follow at White Haven Memorial Park on Marsh Road in Pittsford.  Memorial Contributions may be sent to the Alzheimer’s Association, 435 E Henrietta Rd, Rochester, NY 14620. To share a memory or a condolence, please visit: www.doughertyfuneralhomes.com

Honeoye Lake: At age 97, Dorothy (Dottie) passed away peacefully surrounded by her family at her home on Honeoye Lake on Sunday, April 18, 2021. Dorothy Ann Isaac Gotham was born in Rochester, NY, on August 6, 1923 to the late Joseph and Elsie Ritz Isaac. She was predeceased by Clinton O. Gotham, her loving husband of 55 years, and her 6 siblings.

Dottie was a 1944 graduate of the UR School of Nursing and retired as an Infant Education Teacher from the Onondaga County ARC of Syracuse where she lived for 45 years. She loved to garden, cook, sew, quilt, relax on the lake, and spend time with her family and friends. Dottie was famous for her homemade lemon meringue pie and her love of all things chocolate, especially dark chocolate.

Survived by her children; Lisa (Michael) Hinson of Wichita, KS, Craig (Pamela) Gotham of Honeoye, NY, Sheila Gotham of Honeoye, NY, and her 8 grandchildren; Justin (Stephanie) Hinson, Jasie (Abini) Desta, Susanne (Keith) Means, Clint (Juliana) Gotham, Lauren Gotham, Colin Gotham, Adam (Sarah) Gotham, and Andrew Gotham, 17 great grandchildren, sister-in-law Diane Gotham of Syracuse, and many beloved nieces, nephews, and friends.

A Memorial Mass will take place at 11 AM on August 7, 2021 at St. Mary’s Catholic Church, 8961 Main Street in Honeoye, NY. Interment will immediately follow mass at St. Mary’s Cemetery in Honeoye.  A reception will be held at the Masonic Lodge on County Road 36 in Honeoye.  In lieu of flowers, Memorial Contributions may be made to Macular Degeneration Research (brightfocus.org/stopAMD) or to St. Mary’s Quilting Group in Honeoye.  To share a memory or a condolence please visit: www.doughertyfuneralhomes.com.

Livonia, NY/Rochester, NY:  James “Jimmy” Wesley Stiner, 41, of Livonia, NY,  passed away from a heart attack on Saturday, April 17, 2021.

Anyone who had the honor to meet Jimmy would tell you that he was larger than life and one of the kindest souls to walk this earth. He always had a smile on his face and was always checking in on everyone he knew to make sure they were doing well. Jimmy loved to listen to music and dance and was especially fond of The Grateful Dead, Phish, and Twiddle. He was also a big Pittsburgh Steelers fan through and through. He was pure light and love in a world of increasing darkness. He will be sorely missed.

Jimmy worked for the local bricklayer union, BAC Local 11, for 15 years after graduating from Livonia High School in 1997. He suffered from a long-term addiction to drugs and alcohol, which led to his eventual rehabilitation in 2019. Since then, Jimmy worked steadily with Foodlink in Rochester, preparing and packaging food for local schools and helping distribute food to those in need in the greater Rochester area. Foodlink provided Jimmy an opportunity to get back on his feet through their Fellow program, and he was the first person in New York State to be licensed as a chef journeyman. Jimmy was so proud of the skills he learned there and the steps he was making in life. Above all, he was so proud to stay clean. It is a true irony of life for a heart attack to have taken him, just as he was beginning to truly thrive in society.

Jimmy is survived by one son, Joshua Wesley Stiner of Brighton, who was the love of his life, and his reason for living and staying sober, and former wife Amy Giebel of Brighton. He also leaves behind his parents, James Stiner, of Nauvoo, PA and Cindy Graham, of Liberty, PA; his brother, William (Jessica) Stiner of Pittsburgh, PA; his grandmothers, Tracy Ladue of Rochester and Wanda Graham of Liberty, PA; aunts and uncles Heather, Bob, Rick, Pete, and Gina; cousins Darick, Jesse, and Sloane; and many chosen family members and friends whom he loved dearly. He was preceded in death by his grandfathers Melvin Graham of Liberty, PA, James Stiner of Canton, PA, and Robert Ladue of Rochester and uncle William.

A Gathering of family and friends will be held on Saturday, April 24, 2021 from 10 a.m. until 1 p.m. at the Kevin W. Dougherty Funeral Home Inc., 21 Big Tree Street, Rte 15 & 20A, Livonia, NY 14487.  All are welcome and tie-dye encouraged. No formal funeral service will be held and interment will take place privately.

The family asks that in lieu of flowers, donations be made to either of the following foundations: To celebrate the journey of sobriety that Jimmy followed, donations can be made to WaterWheel’s Divided Sky Fund, Phish’s non-profit organization dedicated to opening a sobriety house in Ludlow, VT. Donations can be made at http://trey.com/donate.

To celebrate his son Josh’s heart warrior journey, donations can be made to the Ronald McDonald House of Rochester at http://www.rmhcrochester.org/get-involved/donate/. Josh was born with Congenital Heart Disease and the Rochester Ronald McDonald House was a huge support to Jimmy and their family through all of Josh’s heart surgeries and battles. Jimmy was passionate about The Children’s Heart Foundation and the Ronald McDonald House after this experience, and did all he could to raise funds and awareness toward CHD.

To send a condolence or share a memory please visit:  www.doughertyfuneralhomes.com

Livonia, NY:  At age 96, Mary passed peacefully on April 16, 2021 at the MM Ewing Continuing Care Center in Canandaigua , NY.   She was born on March 4, 1925 in Buffalo NY to the late Frank and Jennie (Gugino) Muscato.  Survived by son George (Sandy) Harvey; grandchildren, Kristin (Pedro) Citan, Tim (Penny) Hensler, Carol (Mike) Dotterweich, and Christine Hensler; 9 great-grandchildren; brother William (Barbara) Muscato; many nieces, nephews, and extended family and friends.

Mary graduated from Hemlock School and later joined the Women’s Air Force during the Korean Conflict.  She always enjoyed being with family, being “Grandma Mary” and always had a faithful pet by her side.  Mary had a variety of careers.  One of her first was as a telephone operator.  She worked many years for Taylor Instrument calibrating barometers.  Other jobs included making circuit boards for Cunningham Corp. and as a machinist for Gleason Works and Crosman Arms.  Her favorite position was doing detailed craft work part-time for Smidgens in Lima, which she did until she was 90.  Along the way she also went to nursing school and was an LPN nurse.  In her spare time she was a talented artist and known for her cross stitch creations.  One of her joys was creating cross stitch pictures, bookmarks and ornaments which she generously gave to family and friends.

A private graveside service will be held at St. Michael’s Catholic Cemetery, Livonia NY.  Memorials may be made in her memory to the Livonia Rotary Club, PO Box 307, Livonia, NY 14487.  To send a condolence or share a memory please visit:  www.doughertyfuneralhomes.com.

Conesus, NY:  Daniel “Dan” Raymond Mulvaney II, 58, of Conesus, NY passed away from a brain aneurysm on Friday, April 16th, 2021.

Ask anyone in Livingston county (and the surrounding counties, too!), and they’ll tell you exactly what kind of man Dan was. He was a friend to all, always putting everyone else before himself. He was always willing to lend a hand, and he was always the first to ask how he could help.

Dan was a 1981 graduate of Livonia where he played football, volleyball, and sang in the Chorus, all while working to learn the ins and outs of the family farm. He was also a graduate of the two-year Agricultural Science program at Alfred State University in preparation to take over the farm.

He went on to run the family farm for nearly 40 years, milking cows twice a day, baling hay, harvesting crops, welding and fixing his own machines— 18 hours a day with no vacations. But the chores were never a chore for Dan— he loved being outside and was extremely proud to carry on the legacy of Mulvaney Farms. Even after making the decision to transition away from dairy farming, Dan maintained the land and the crops in partnership with his friend Adrian.

Dan was a lifelong resident of Conesus, and in 2019, he went to work for the Town Highway Department. This transition allowed him to continue working outside in the community he loved, while also affording him more flexibility in his schedule. He used that new schedule to his advantage, traveling to Europe, Chicago, and on many more local trips on the motorcycle with his beloved wife, Nancy.

His new schedule also allowed him to take up camping. Some of his fondest childhood memories were of camping with his parents and seven siblings, and he was able to rekindle that love in adulthood. Thanks to the guidance of his friends the Strollos, Sparks, and Loseys, he became an avid camper across the Finger Lakes region.

Dan loved everyone he met, but he held a special love for his children and especially his grandchildren. Of all his jobs throughout his life, his most cherished role was being “Papa Dan.” Tea parties in tiaras, hide and seek, flying kites, petting cows, and jumping in puddles were just some of his favorite activities. His home became known as “The House of Yes.”

Dan was predeceased by his father Daniel Mulvaney, his mother Shirley Donovan Mulvaney, and his dear cousin Jack Allen.

Dan is survived by his loving wife Nancy LoPresti Mulvaney; former wife Dawn Kornbau Mulvaney; children Kirstin Mulvaney, Tory (Byron) Danis, Jessica (Zach) Eason, and Donald (Stephanie) Hosie; grandchildren Kinley and Korbin Eason; siblings Marie (John) Henry, Ruthie (Fred) Nettnin, Becky Nau (Joe Zawadzki), Carol (Steve) Nichols, Margaret (Floyd) Watkins, Laura (Ken) Schoonover, and Robert (Bobbie Jo) Mulvaney; nieces and nephews Michelle Henry, Jennifer (Shane) Treuthart, Sheryl Henry, John Daniel “JD” Henry, Candy (Curtis) Gilley, Amy (Chris) Parsels, Mark (Melissa) Nau, Eric (Jesi) Nau, Josh (Sandra) Nichols, Dan (Shari) Nichols, CJ (Stephanie) Nichols, Sean (Hannah) Schoonover, Seth Schoonover (Kenzie Derleth), Makenna Mulvaney, Matthew Mulvaney, and Madelyn Mulvaney; beloved cousin and namesake Daniel “Dunk” Mulvaney; and many cherished grand nieces and nephews, loving cousins, neighbors, too many friends to mention, and one very special barn dog, Roxi.

A gathering of family and friends will take place in the summer. No formal calling hours or funeral service will be held. To honor Dan’s memory, the family asks that you have a beer, a glass of wine, or a cup of black coffee in his name; that you do something kind for someone in need; that you sign up to become an organ donor; and that you call the people you love and hold them close.

Dan’s activism and love of community stretched across so many different groups; it would be impossible to name them all. He lived his life to the absolute fullest, and he is now helping others do the same through his final gift of organ donation. In lieu of flowers, contributions may be made to UR Finger Lakes Donor Recovery Network, 30 Corporate Woods, Suite 220, Rochester, NY 14623, referencing Daniel Mulvaney on the memo line. To send a condolence or share a memory please visit:  www.doughertyfuneralhomes.com

Livonia:  At age 84, Reggie passed away at Edinburg Regional Medical Center in Edinburg Texas on Wednesday, April 14,2021.  He was born in Rochester, NY to the late Reginald & Margaret Lynn and is also predeceased by his sister Joanne.  Survived by his loving wife of 64 years; Mary Lynn, his children; Joanne Neu and Christopher Lynn, his sisters; Donna and Margaret, and his grandchildren; Christopher (Val) Lynn, Killian (Caroline) Neu, and Devlynn Neu, along with several great-grandchildren.

Reggie loved gardening, hunting and fishing. He was also an artist with many talents, his paintings and sculptures are scattered all over the US, Canada and Mexico. Reggie was a Navy veteran and retired from Rochester Telephone. He & Mary loved both their homes in Livonia and McAllen Texas, where they were surrounded by wonderful friends.  They loved travelling the country and visiting Canada and Mexico in their motorhome.  Reggie loved Livonia, and was an active member of the Livonia Alumni Association.

He was probably known best for his gardening and flower beds which he took great pride in. When you drove by his house you absolutely knew what house it was by the different flower and rock gardens. Most of all Reggie loved his family and absolutely adored his grandchildren and great grandchildren. He will be greatly missed by all who were blessed to know him.

Friends are welcome to call from 10AM to 1PM on Monday, April 26, 2021 at the Kevin W. Dougherty Funeral Home, 21 Big Tree Street in Livonia, where Reggie’s funeral service will immediately follow. Graveside services will be held privately at Lakeview Cemetery in Groveland NY. In Lieu of flowers donations may be made to: Livonia Fire Department, PO Box 151, Livonia NY 14487 or to a charity of your choice.  To share a memory or a condolence, please visit:  www.doughertyfuneralhomes.com

Livonia: At age 55, Laurie passed away on Monday, April 12, 2021 at Highland Hospital in Rochester. She was born in Rochester, New York. Survived by her parents; Francis and Dorothy Frisch, her devoted children; Jennifer (Chris) Cook, Tom (Kelly) Strong, Alysha Frisch-LoPiano (Jake Sadwick), along with Chris LoPiano, Deanna McLymond, Brianna LoPiano, her siblings; Michael (Mary) Frisch, Mary (Bob) Orman, Patty Frisch, her grandchildren; Lucas Cook, Leena Cook, Tommy Strong, Ali Strong, Tony Strong, and her close former husbands; Todd Strong and Dean LoPiano, along with her fur babies; Tobee and Frankie and several aunts, uncles, nieces, nephews, cousins and friends. Laurie will be greatly missed.

Friends and family are invited to call from 3PM to 6PM on Monday, April 19, 2021 at the Kevin W. Dougherty Funeral Home, 21 Big Tree Street in Livonia. Laurie’s funeral service will be held privately with interment taking place at St. Michael’s Cemetery in Livonia. In lieu of flowers, memorial contributions may be made to: Wilmot Cancer Center, 601 Elmwood Ave, Rochester, NY 14642. To share a memory or a condolence, please visit: www.doughertyfuneralhomes.com.

Livonia:  At age 81, Lance passed peacefully at home on April 11, 2021.  He was born on February 14, 1940 in Penn Yan, NY to the late Rudolph Sr. and Florence (Sperbeck) Parker.  Survived by his wife of 60 years, Nancy (Farnbaugh) Parker and children; Lance C. Parker Jr. of Livonia, Fred Parker of SC, Celeste (Patrick) O’Dea of Livonia, and Julie (David) Neal of VA; grandchildren, Cory Parker, David Parker, Jessica (Stephen) Clayton, Shaun O’Dea, Ryan O’Dea, Chelsea O’Dea, Matthew Neal, Christopher Neal, and Devin Parker; great-grandchildren, Hunter Wasko, Alexander Clayton, and Harper Clayton; twin brother Vance (Sandy) Parker, brother Rudolph Jr. (Jackie) Parker, and sister-in-law Danielle Farnbaugh; also survived by several cousins, nieces, nephews, friends, and his church family at the Lakeville UCC.

Lance graduated in 1958 from Thomas Edison High School in Elmira Heights.  In 1959 he joined the United States Coast Guard, married his wife Nancy in 1961, and was honorably discharged in 1963.  He was stationed on the USCG Westwind an icebreaker in the Arctic Circle.  Lance then attended RBI earning his associates degree in accounting.  He retired after 30 years of service with Xerox in Rochester, NY.

Over the years Lance participated in many sports and coached Little League Baseball, Vince Lombardi Football, Junior Bowling, and Girls Softball, positively impacting hundreds of young lives.  He was a world class hugger who never treated anyone as a stranger.

A graveside service, with military honors, will be held at 11am on Wednesday, May 19th, at the Western New York National Cemetery, 1254 Indian Falls Road, Corfu, NY.  A Service to Celebrate Lance’s Life will take place the following day, Thursday, May 20^th at 11am, their 60^th wedding anniversary, at the Lakeville United Church of Christ, 5687 Big Tree Road, Rte 20A, Lakeville, NY 14480.    In lieu of flowers memorial contributions may be made in Lance’s memory to the Lakeville UCC at the address above.  To send a condolence or share a memory please visit:  www.doughertyfuneralhomes.com

Livonia, NY:  At age 86, Anita passed peacefully at home on April 11, 2021 on her father’s birthday.  She was born in Rochester, NY to the late Michael and Lena (Provenzano) DiBella.  In addition to her parents she was predeceased by her daughter Michelle Stefano.  Survived by her husband of 64 years, James V. Stefano Sr. and children; Jim (Virginia) Stefano, Jr. of Livonia, John Stefano of FL, and Gary (Concordia) Stefano of NJ; grandchildren, Leanne (Eric) Bohannon, Jeanne (Don) Brown, Cheyenne Michelle Stefano, Dakota Stefano, Cole Stefano, Nicolena Stefano and James Stefano; great-grandchildren, Gianna, Maria, Clara, Mark, Donald Jr., and James; sister Barbara (Patrick) Fornataro and many loving nieces, nephews, in-laws, caring cousins, godchild Kelvin Dowd and her friend Grace Dowd who pre-deceased her.

Anita was born and raised on Sherman St. in Rochester and was closest to her sister Barbara, cousin Diane and her Uncle John and Aunt Cutchie Provenzano.  She attended Nazareth Academy, where many of her classmates became lifelong friends, and graduated from Rochester Business School.  Anita met Jim on a blind date, were married in 1956, and built their home and raised their children in Henrietta.  She became a medical secretary for the Rochester Ophthalmological Group for many decades, making forever friends with Kim Walker, Chris Jones and Mary Hopp (deceased), and Mary’s sister’s Ann Barbato and Evelyn Thompson (both since deceased).

Anita and Jim moved to Livonia in the 70’s making that their home, and had one of the first Bed and Breakfasts in the area in the late 1980s. They built a new home in 2006.  Anita made their homes always open to their neighbors, many new friends they made over the years, and to her extended family, in-laws, nieces and nephews.  Her grand daughter Jeanne moved across the street and was like a daughter to her and Jim, and she was closest to her niece Patti Fornataro.

Anita and Jim traveled to many destinations with one purpose in mind, to visit family and friends.  Anita always had a camera in-hand to capture and keep those moments close to her.  The phone calls never stopped at the house nor did the flow of great Italian food and her special Sicilian Pizza recipe handed down from her mother Lena.  Anita helped her son Jim capture her “secret” minestrone recipe in her final days.   Her neighbor Sheila Wolf later became her special caregiver in her home, which was her final resting place after a progressive battle with congestive heart failure.  A special thanks to Dr.’s Andrew Wolfe and Ryan Nelson for their outstanding personal care over the years.

No prior calling hours will be held per Anita’s wishes.  Her Funeral Mass will be held at 10am on Friday, April 16^th, at St. Matthew Catholic Church, 6591 Richmond Mills Road, Rte. 20A, Livonia, NY and all are welcome to attend. For those not able, it will be live streamed on the St. Matthew Facebook page at http://facebook.com/stsmaryandmatthewfaithcommunity.  Burial at Holy Sepulchre Cemetery, Rochester, NY on Saturday, April 17^th, at 11am, all are welcome to meet at the Lake Avenue Gate at 10:45am.  Memorial contributions may be made to St. Matthew Catholic Church, PO Box 77, Livonia, NY 14487 or to the School of the Holy Childhood, 100 Groton Parkway, Rochester, NY 14623.  To send a condolence or share a memory please visit:  www.doughertyfuneralhomes.com

Geneseo: At age 65, Gary passed away at his home in Geneseo on Saturday, April 10, 2021. He was born in Rochester, NY to the late John and Lucy Jager. Survived by his beloved wife of 42 years; Laurie Jager, his devoted children; Taylor Jager (Katie Walrath) and Brianna Jager (Nick Bruno), his brother; John (Gail) Jager, his sister; Sandra (Brian) Conheady, his mother and father-in-law; Earl and Beverly Ruf, his brothers-in-law; James, Tommy, Steven (Denise), Jerry (Kathy) Ruf and his sister-in-law; Sheree Ruf, along with several nieces, nephews and friends.
Gary was a loving husband and father; he will be greatly missed by all who knew him. HYSYP!
A memorial service will take place privately at the Kevin W. Dougherty Funeral Home in Livonia. In lieu of flowers, memorial contributions can be made to: the American Cancer Society, PO Box 42040, Oklahoma City, OK 73123. To share a memory or a condolence, please visit: www.doughertyfuneralhomes.com

Conesus, NY:  April 8, 2021 at age 64.  LaVern was born on June 23, 1956 to the late Archie and Shirley (Waldon) Boylan.  In addition to his parents, he was predeceased by his brothers John and Greg Boylan.  Survived by his sister Deb (John) Cosco of East Rochester and nieces, Chelsea Cosco and Kaylee (Brian) Matzen, friends, his church family, and his beloved pets Gabriel and Michael.

A Memorial Service will be held at 10:30am on Sunday, April 25^th, 2021 at the Church of Devine Inspiration, 27 Appleton Street, Rochester, NY 14611.  Burial will be held privately at Parma Union Cemetery, Hilton, NY.  Memorial contributions may be made in his memory to the Church of Divine Inspiration at the address above.  To send a condolence or share a memory please visit:  www.doughertyfuneralhomes.com

Lima, NY.  On Tuesday, April 6, 2021, Trijntje (Thea) Bodenstaff, beloved mother, grandmother and great-grandmother, passed away peacefully at the age of 94.

Trijntje Blaauwbroek was born in Oosterwolde, Friesland in the Netherlands on January 12, 1927, to parents Harm and Ebeltje (Vonk), as the only daughter in a family of four sons.  After enduring many excruciating years in the Netherlands under Nazi occupation during WWII, Trijntje emigrated to the United States of America with her husband and infant daughter on May 6, 1949.

The traumas presented by suffering under Hitler’s control instilled in Thea a profound appreciation for the country that she now called home and the American freedoms that it provided.  She was unwaveringly grateful for the opportunity to vote, never neglecting a chance to exercise this privilege or speak to others about the need to appreciate this liberty.  Despite her failing health, Thea insisted on completing her ballot in November 2020, proudly demonstrating that her voice mattered, after experiencing a regime that had silenced her views as insignificant.  Thea’s deep-rooted patriotism was a hallmark of her character and, whether waving a flag at a parade or saluting the soldiers that liberated her hometown, she was eternally grateful for the country that had adopted her as its own.

Thea was married to the love of her life, Herman Bodenstaff, for 44 years.  After emigrating to America, Thea and Herman settled and raised three daughters in the Rochester area.  She was a skilled homemaker and an active member of the community, participating in PTA and enjoying many years as a Girl Scout Troop leader.  For over 30 years, Thea volunteered at the Rochester General Hospital Oncology Center, finding immense joy in attending the needs of the patients and assisting the staff.  Her childhood aspiration was to become a nurse, but the occupation of her home country stipulated that she use those nursing skills for the Nazi regime, something she refused to do.  Her morals led her to sacrifice that dream until she found an outlet at the RGH.  Recognized as ‘Volunteer of the Year’ for her work at the hospital, she stated, “I love people.  You get so much out of what you put in.  We just all need to show each other more love.”

An avid gardener and nature enthusiast with unsurpassed skill, Thea’s beautiful gardens and talented green thumb were the envy of many.  She remained active in bowling leagues, Women’s Life Benefit Society, Silver Sneakers exercise group, wood carving, painting and the Lima Golden Agers.  She was a masterful knitter, spending many hours crafting hats for newborns at area hospitals or designing sweaters and blankets for chilly family and friends.  She also held a passion for traveling the world and appreciating the intense beauty to be found, despite the early hardships she had endured and evil she had seen.  Never willing to turn down an adventure, Thea’s 94 years were focused on imparting love, enjoying her family and appreciating the world around her with every moment that was granted to her.

Thea was predeceased by her husband, Herman, and daughter, Evelyn Kirkwood.  She is survived by her daughters Nancy (Joe) Barkan of Geneseo, NY, Louise (Richard) Utter of Salem, SC, son-in-law Jim Kirkwood of Lima, NY, grandchildren Jim (Julie) Kirkwood, Kim Barkan, David (Anna) Kirkwood, Kristy (Nick Warner) Barkan & Jeff Barkan.  Also surviving are five great-grandchildren; Lucy, Molly, Freddy, Kate & Henry, of whom Thea was exceptionally proud.  Thea leaves behind many nieces, nephews and relatives both in the USA and the Netherlands.  The family would like to also thank Thea’s devoted friend, Mrs. Margaret Paradise, for her support and friendship.

Due to COVID-19 restrictions, the family will be holding an outdoor celebration of life at an undetermined date in the Summer of 2021.  Details will be forthcoming.

A private graveside service will be held in the future at St. Michael’s Cemetery, Livonia, NY.

In addition, the family would like to acknowledge the exceptionally caring and skilled staff at the Avon Nursing Facility for the wonderful comfort and love they have provided Thea during such a difficult year.  We are overwhelmingly grateful to all of you.

In lieu of flowers, the family would ask that you please use Thea’s memory to spread love, kindness and perhaps even a few flower seeds to make this world even more beautiful than the way she viewed it.  Donations are unnecessary but can be sent to the Rochester General Hospital Oncology Center or the Multiple Myeloma Research Foundation, if desired.  To send a condolence or share a memory please visit: www.doughertyfuneralhomes.com

Geneseo:  At age 49, Kerri passed on April 3, 2021 at Highland Hospital in Rochester, NY.  Survived by her children; Ryan (Alyssa) Consiglio of Phelps, Chelsey Saunders of Holley, and Austin Wester of Perry; grandchildren, Gavin, Hailey, Hayden, and Paysen; mother RoseMary Swede, father Porter Wayne Swede (Karen Rumfola), and brother Wayne Swede, all of Geneseo; also survived by many other loving family and friends.

Kerri was born on March 4, 1972 in Warsaw, NY to parents Porter Wayne and RoseMary (Cicero) Swede.  In her younger years she was raised in Perry, NY, attended Perry School, and the New Testament Church.  Throughout her entire life she was deeply loved by her family.

Family and friends may call on Thursday, April 8^th, from 4-7pm at the Kevin W. Dougherty Funeral Home Inc., 21 Big Tree Street, Rte 15 & 20A, Livonia, NY where Kerri’s funeral service will be held on Friday, April 9^th, at 11am.  Burial to follow at Temple Hill Cemetery, Geneseo, NY.  In lieu of flowers memorial contributions may be made to the American Diabetes Association, 160 Allens Creek Road, Rochester, NY 14618.  To send a condolence or share a memory please visit:  www.doughertyfuneralhomes.com