Conesus, NY: Daniel “Dan” Raymond Mulvaney II, 58, of Conesus, NY passed away from a brain aneurysm on Friday, April 16th, 2021.
Ask anyone in Livingston county (and the surrounding counties, too!), and they’ll tell you exactly what kind of man Dan was. He was a friend to all, always putting everyone else before himself. He was always willing to lend a hand, and he was always the first to ask how he could help.
Dan was a 1981 graduate of Livonia where he played football, volleyball, and sang in the Chorus, all while working to learn the ins and outs of the family farm. He was also a graduate of the two-year Agricultural Science program at Alfred State University in preparation to take over the farm.
He went on to run the family farm for nearly 40 years, milking cows twice a day, baling hay, harvesting crops, welding and fixing his own machines— 18 hours a day with no vacations. But the chores were never a chore for Dan— he loved being outside and was extremely proud to carry on the legacy of Mulvaney Farms. Even after making the decision to transition away from dairy farming, Dan maintained the land and the crops in partnership with his friend Adrian.
Dan was a lifelong resident of Conesus, and in 2019, he went to work for the Town Highway Department. This transition allowed him to continue working outside in the community he loved, while also affording him more flexibility in his schedule. He used that new schedule to his advantage, traveling to Europe, Chicago, and on many more local trips on the motorcycle with his beloved wife, Nancy.
His new schedule also allowed him to take up camping. Some of his fondest childhood memories were of camping with his parents and seven siblings, and he was able to rekindle that love in adulthood. Thanks to the guidance of his friends the Strollos, Sparks, and Loseys, he became an avid camper across the Finger Lakes region.
Dan loved everyone he met, but he held a special love for his children and especially his grandchildren. Of all his jobs throughout his life, his most cherished role was being “Papa Dan.” Tea parties in tiaras, hide and seek, flying kites, petting cows, and jumping in puddles were just some of his favorite activities. His home became known as “The House of Yes.”
Dan was predeceased by his father Daniel Mulvaney, his mother Shirley Donovan Mulvaney, and his dear cousin Jack Allen.
Dan is survived by his loving wife Nancy LoPresti Mulvaney; former wife Dawn Kornbau Mulvaney; children Kirstin Mulvaney, Tory (Byron) Danis, Jessica (Zach) Eason, and Donald (Stephanie) Hosie; grandchildren Kinley and Korbin Eason; siblings Marie (John) Henry, Ruthie (Fred) Nettnin, Becky Nau (Joe Zawadzki), Carol (Steve) Nichols, Margaret (Floyd) Watkins, Laura (Ken) Schoonover, and Robert (Bobbie Jo) Mulvaney; nieces and nephews Michelle Henry, Jennifer (Shane) Treuthart, Sheryl Henry, John Daniel “JD” Henry, Candy (Curtis) Gilley, Amy (Chris) Parsels, Mark (Melissa) Nau, Eric (Jesi) Nau, Josh (Sandra) Nichols, Dan (Shari) Nichols, CJ (Stephanie) Nichols, Sean (Hannah) Schoonover, Seth Schoonover (Kenzie Derleth), Makenna Mulvaney, Matthew Mulvaney, and Madelyn Mulvaney; beloved cousin and namesake Daniel “Dunk” Mulvaney; and many cherished grand nieces and nephews, loving cousins, neighbors, too many friends to mention, and one very special barn dog, Roxi.
A gathering of family and friends will take place in the summer. No formal calling hours or funeral service will be held. To honor Dan’s memory, the family asks that you have a beer, a glass of wine, or a cup of black coffee in his name; that you do something kind for someone in need; that you sign up to become an organ donor; and that you call the people you love and hold them close.
Dan’s activism and love of community stretched across so many different groups; it would be impossible to name them all. He lived his life to the absolute fullest, and he is now helping others do the same through his final gift of organ donation. In lieu of flowers, contributions may be made to UR Finger Lakes Donor Recovery Network, 30 Corporate Woods, Suite 220, Rochester, NY 14623, referencing Daniel Mulvaney on the memo line. To send a condolence or share a memory please visit: www.doughertyfuneralhomes.com
My sincere condolences to Dan’s family and friends. What a great man! If you were feeling kind of down he could pick you right up just by talking to him. I’ll miss him plowing the field behind my house on Holmes Hill. I stopped him a couple of times just to shoot the breeze with him.
Keith and Gail Wing
So sorry for your lose. Gail and I were once neighbors to Dan and the Mulvaney family on Clark rd. Dan was always willing to give a helping hand to his neighbors and hold out his hand in friendship. His big smile and bigger personality will be missed. Our thoughts and prayers are with you.
Dan was a special man. His ability to make the worst day, turn into your best day! His smile, was contagious, he had a very large family which was extended to all of his many friends as well!! My brother Mark was included in Dan’s family. It started when my brother moved into the house next door to the Mulvaney farm, the rest is history. Dan will forever be missed, by so many people!! Fly high Dan, it’s forever happy hour in heaven!
So sorry for your loss, what a wonder of a human being,
part of the landscape, working hard, but always ready to
be a friend. Dan was so helpful with my young ones who
wanted cats, visit the cats, take the cats home, feed the cats,
and there Dan was willing to find the kittens for us and help. We still
have Max we got him 2007., and we have nice memories from the farm
with Dan working there… immersed in the earth somehow,, and so very
bright..
So sorry for this great loss. Knew Dan for quite a few years and agree with everything posted. My own personal observation was that every time our paths crossed, Dan’s greeting always made me feel like I was the most important person in Livonia.
Laura, I am sorry to hear of your Family’s loss. He was fun to be around the several times I had met him.
Dan lite up every room he every walked into. What a blessing that we knew him and that he touched our lives.