John L. MacArthur ~ February 26, 2024

Honeoye: At age 87, John passed on Monday, February 26, 2024, at F.F. Thompson Hospital in Canandaigua, NY. He was born in Dansville, NY. Pre-deceased by his parents Archibald and Gladys (Struble) MacArthur. Survived by his sons Archie (Julie) MacArthur, John MacArthur, and Scott MacArthur, daughters Alayne MacArthur, Mary Jo MacArthur, Sandra MacArthur, and Nadra (Larry) Wade. Grandchildren, Brad, Stephanie and Samantha MacArthur, Amanda Binns, Randy, Emily Nedrow, Shane Reeves, Shannon Vough, and Melissa Muncy as well as 13 great-grandchildren.

Friends and family are invited to call on Saturday, March 9, 2024, from 12 PM – 2 PM at the Kevin W. Dougherty Funeral Home, 8624 Main Street in Honeoye. Burial will be private. To share a memory or a condolence, please visit www.doughertyfuneralhomes.com.

Anna Lou Meyer ~ February 26, 2024

Lakeville/Casselberry, FL:  At age 87, Anna Lou passed on Monday, February 26, 2024, at the Watermark Memory Care Center in Winter Springs, FL. She was born in Rochester, NY to the late Frank and Francis (Gable) Hamlin.  Pre-deceased by her husband Walter “Bus” Meyer, and brother Thomas Hamlin. Survived by her daughter Lou Ann Gerken, son Michael Gerken and daughter-in-law Sulma Gerken. Five grandchildren and 11 great-grandchildren.

Anna Lou was very actively caring with our family and made sure we were safe and sound. She will be greatly missed as time marches on.

Friends and family are invited to Anna Lou’s graveside service and burial on Tuesday, March 5, 2024, at 11:00 am at the Mt. Pleasant Cemetery, Route 20A, Geneseo NY. To share a memory or a condolence, please visit www.doughertyfuneralhomes.com.

Denh Kythong ~ February 24, 2024

West Henrietta: At age 59, Denh passed away peacefully surrounded by her family on Saturday, February 24, 2024, at her home in West Henrietta, NY. She was born on September 8, 1964, in Thakhek, Khammouane, Laos to the late Seng and Khampeng Kythong. Survived by her beloved husband, Tommy Chanthavong; and her son, Mexkai (Sarah Lynnette) Chanthavong.

Friends and family are invited to call from 4-7 PM on Friday, March 1, 2024, at the Kevin W. Dougherty Funeral Home, 21 Big Tree Street in Livonia, NY, where her Funeral Service will take place from 12:30-2:30 PM on Saturday, March 2, 2024. Interment will take place privately at Wat Pa Lao Buddhadham Temple in West Henrietta, NY. To share a memory or a condolence, please visit: www. doughertyfuneralhomes.com

Autumn Maria DiDio – February 21, 2024

Greece:  At age 38, Autumn passed on Wednesday, February 21, 2024, at Unity Hospital Greece, NY. She was born in Rochester, NY. Survived by her devoted companion Brian DePoty, parents John and Robin (Peck) Bedson, and John DiDio. Sisters, Elena (Ken) Dunning, Tiffany (Mark) Farrell, Erica (Peter) Gardner, Morgan (Wyatt) Struble, brothers, Paul DiDio (Diane) and John T. Bedson. Grandparents Ambrose and Margaret DiDio, numerous aunts, uncles, nephews, and nieces. Pre-deceased by her grandparents Richard and Beverly Peck and Uncle Richard Peck.

Autumn attended Livonia High School and later she went to Continental School of Beauty, where she earned her cosmetology license. Autumn worked for Great Clips on Ridge Road Greece, NY, and truly loved doing her job. She had a bubbly personality and enjoyed meeting new people. She loved being with her animals and would always adopt rescue dogs and other pets. She loved her current dogs Rona and Biscuit.

Friends and family are invited to call from 4-7 PM on Monday, February 26, 2024, at the Kevin W. Dougherty Funeral Home, 21 Big Tree Street in Livonia NY. Her Funeral Service will be held at 11:00 AM on Tuesday, February 27, 2024, at the United Methodist Church 21 Summers Street, Livonia NY. Burial will be private.

Memorial contributions can be made to: the American Kidney Foundation 11921 Rockville Pike, Suite 300, Rockville, MD 208852, or Lollypop Farm 99 Victor Road Fairport, NY 14450. To share a memory or a condolence, please visit www.doughertyfuneralhomes.com.

Jean M. Dellies ~ February 21, 2024

Altus, OK: At age 62, Jean passed away on Wednesday, February 22, 2024. She was born on Thursday, November 16, 1961, in Cleveland, OH to her surviving parents Earl and Claudia Cliffel. Survived by her beloved husband, Stephen Dellies; her children, Jaime Bell, Brady (Kennedi) Bell, Aviana (Ryan) Yeager; her siblings, Michael (Sonia) Cliffel, Margaret (Craig) Bowen, David Cliffel, and Steven (Jodi) Cliffel; along with several nieces, nephews and friends.  Jean is predeceased by her sister-in-law, Colleen Cliffel.

Jean was truly one of God’s angels. She lived her life in service to others by providing health care in the nursing field. There was nothing she enjoyed more than meeting people and continuing her education. She began her formal education by graduating Cum Laude from the State University of New York at Buffalo with a BS degree in nursing. She entered the US Air Force in January of 1985, serving at Andrews AFB, Maryland, Tyndal AFB, Florida and Aviano AB, Italy. While on active duty, she held a variety of positions including Base Health Promotion Officer at both Aviano and Tyndal, Nurse manager of the Combined Surgical Services Clinic at Tyndall, and the director of Medical Education at Andrews. Along the way, she found time to earn her master’s degree in nursing at the University of Maryland at Baltimore. She completed her military service, retiring as a major in July 2000. She continued her medical service as an Interim Healthcare Home Health Nurse, then as an educator at Bay Medical Center, and finally as the chief of the Employee Clinic at Jackson County Memorial Hospital. Her love of learning led her to the University of Alabama School of Medicine, where she graduated with honors in 2008. She always talked about her patients as if they were family, especially her geriatric patients.

In addition to learning and helping others, Jean had a wide variety of hobbies and interests which included reading, craft making, drawing, star gazing, cooking, hiking, diving, photography, and gardening, just to name just a few. She loved adventures, taking advantage of hiking several National Parks. She would routinely listen to podcasts on various outdoor adventures and dreamed of traveling the world to see all God’s wonders. Jean was also very active in the Catholic church, offering her time to teach religious education classes, help with fundraisers, and cook meals for visiting priests.

In Oklahoma, friends and family may call from 6-8 PM on Friday, February 23, 2024, at Kincannon Funeral Home, 3020 North Main Street in Altus, OK. A Funeral Mass will take place at 10 AM on Saturday, February 24, 2024, at Prince of Peace Catholic Church, 1500 Falcon Road in Altus, OK with Reverend Father Joseph David officiating. Arrangements are under the care of Kincannon Funeral Home and Cremation Services.

In New York, friends and family may call from 4-7 PM on Thursday, February 29, 2024, at the Kevin W. Dougherty Funeral Home, 21 Big Tree Street in Livonia, NY. A Funeral Mass will take place at 10 AM on Friday, March 1, 2024 at St. Matthews Catholic Church, 6591 Richmond Mills Road in Livonia, NY with Reverend Father William Laird officiating. Interment and Military Honors will occur immediately following Jean’s Funeral Mass at St. Michaels Cemetery on Shelly Road in Livonia, NY. Arrangements are under the care of Kevin W. Dougherty Funeral Home, Inc.

Memorial Contributions may be made to: the American Red Cross, PO Box 37839, Boone, IA 50037-0839, or The Salvation Army, 615 Slaters Lane, Alexandria, VA 22314. To share a memory or a condolence, please visit: www.kincannonfuneralhome.com or www.doughertyfuneralhomes.com

Robert L. Booher – February 18, 2024

 

Greece/Lima: At age 86 surrounded by family, Robert Leonard Booher passed away peacefully on February 18th at the home of his daughter and son-in-law Joanna (Gregory)Collins, South Lima NY, after a battle with cancer. Robert was born on March 5, 1937, in Rochester, NY to Avon NY residents Claire Leonard Booher and Cornelia Bernice MacArthur. He is predeceased by his parents, first wife Jane Vanderhoof, sister and brother-in-law Lynda (Craig) Porter, and niece Kymberly Porter. He is survived by his wife, Sarah Booher, children, Cynthia (Robert) Little, and Joanna (Gregory) Collins, stepchildren, Robert (Tracey) Cawlfield, and John (Emily) Allen. Grandchildren, Matthew (Chandra) Ladelpha, Katelynn Ladelpha, Cory (Leigha) Collins, Christopher (Megan) Collins, Ethan (Meghan) Collins, Spencer Collins, step-grandchildren, Carlos Sierras, Christina Sierras, Colin Cawlfield, Cam Cawlfield. Great grandchildren, Madilyn Ladelpha, Sadie Lynn Ladelpha, River-Lyn Collins, Jeremiah Sierras, Ricardo Sierras, and Elena Sierras, niece Karen Porter, nephew Mark (Rose) Porter, and children Joshua, Lori and Jennifer.

Parents, Claire and Cornelia (aka Nene) Booher welcomed their firstborn with great celebration. Five years later they welcomed Bob’s little sister, Lynda, to the family. He attended and graduated from Livonia Central School District. He graduated from Colgate University in 1959, where he was chosen to sing and travel with the University’s illustrious Colgate 13. He attended Colgate Rochester Divinity School in 1962 and was ordained as a Presbyterian Minister the same year and was called to Christ Presbyterian Church in Rochester.

He married his first wife Jane Vanderhoof in 1962 welcoming daughters Cynthia and Joanna in due course while he started four neighborhood associations as a specialized ministry. He was very active in the Civil Rights Movement and worked for the equality of all human beings regardless of race, creed, and skin color. His passion led him to attend a large gathering in Washington D.C. where he heard Martin Luther King give his ‘I Have a Dream speech’. An account he loved telling his grandchildren about!

In 1974 his family joined the Ecumenical Institute/Institute of Cultural Affairs where he worked internationally for 10 years helping communities improve their lives through planning and implementing programs.  In 1983 Bob returned to the Rochester Area to start his consulting firm, PMA Associates of the Genesee Valley, Inc. working with over forty area organizations. In 1984 he married Sarah (Cawlfield, Kiser) Allen. They settled in Livonia, along with Sarah’s sons Robert Cawlfield and John Allen. He continued his work developing programs as Executive Director of Livingston County Coalition of Churches promoting and supporting the development of new programs such as food pantries, local prison family visitation, and most importantly to him, the establishment of Teresa House in Geneseo, a beautiful hospice home that continues to help families navigate through difficult times. At the same time, he served several long-term interim Pastor positions with rural Presbyterian congregations officially retiring from Ministry in 2002.

Through Sarah Bob discovered his love of all things equestrian later in life. In 1990 he and Sarah bought a farm in Livonia and twelve years later a farm in West Sparta. For 29 years he enjoyed being a very hard-working gentleman farmer. He rode and raised horses, loved his tractor and dogs, Ginger and Cadbury, so much, and watched his crops, horses, and Koi fish grow from his back porch. He and Sarah were active in the Genesee Valley Riding and Driving Club and Genesee Valley Hunt.  Bob could be found manning the swinging gate at the Genesee Valley Hunt Trials every year, often recruiting available grandsons to help him. In West Sparta, his tomato plants grew to enormous heights with a mound of horse dung as fertilizer. We would laugh at his methods, but the tomatoes were delicious.

In 2019, due to health issues, Bob and Sarah gave up their horse farm and moved to an independent living apartment at The Village at Unity in Greece NY.  Just before his passing Bob and Sarah celebrated forty years of their marriage.

In keeping with Robert’s wishes, no formal funeral services will take place at this time. To share a memory or a condolence, please visit: www.doughertyfuneralhomes.com  Memorial gifts may be given to Teresa House 21 Highland Road, Geneseo, NY. 14454

Betty A. Schrader – February 16, 2024

Canadice:  At age 83, Betty passed on Friday, February 16, 2024 at F.F. Thompson Hospital in Canandaigua, NY.  She was born in Rochester, NY.  Predeceased by her parents Paul and Frances Guzzetta, brother Paul Guzzetta and daughter-in-law, Christine Mattice. Survived by her husband, Norman Schrader, sons, Timothy (Trish) Mattice, Marc Mattice, Daniel Mattice, Scott (Patricia) Mattice, daughter, Lisa (Tim) Jones. Sister, Jean (John) Lloyd, brothers-in-law, William (Nguyet) Schrader, Father Robert Schrader, 14 grandchildren and 14 great grandchildren.

Betty was best known for her singing in the St Mary’s choir, where she was the alto for over 30 years. She enjoyed fishing and hunting with her beloved husband Norm. Betty enjoyed dancing, watching sports and being with her family. She retired from R.I.T after 22 years. She was a mom to many. A staple in her family. An amazing mom, wife, grandma and friend.

Friends and family are invited to call on Thursday, February 22, 2024 from 4PM – 7PM at the Kevin W. Dougherty Funeral Home, 8624 Main Street in Honeoye, NY. Her Funeral Mass will be held at 10:00AM on Friday, February 23, 2024 at St. Mary’s Church 8961 Main St, Honeoye, NY. Burial will follow at the St. Mary’s Cemetery, County Road 37 Honeoye. Memorial contributions can be made to: St. Mary and Matthew Catholic Church, 8961 Main St, Honeoye, NY 14471.  To share a memory or a condolence, please visit: www.doughertyfuneralhomes.com.

 

Gary J. Shaw ~ February 14, 2024

Farmington: At age 69, Gary passed away on Wednesday, February 14, 2024 at St. James Hospital in Hornell, NY. He was born on September 5, 1954 to the late James Shaw and Nancy Brasser. Gary is predeceased by his son, James E. Shaw; and his brothers, Larry Shaw and Steven L. Shaw. Survived by his beloved wife, Mary Ann (Gamrod) Shaw; his son, Ben Shaw; his grandchildren, AJ Keese, Bailee Shaw, Cash MacNeal; and his siblings, Lynn (Bill) Magorka, Donald (Betsy) Shaw, and Debbie Stiles.

In keeping with Gary’s wishes, no formal funeral services will take place at this time. To share a memory or a condolence, please visit: www.doughertyfuneralhomes.com

Paul Andrew Stoep (1961-2024) – February 14, 2024

Lyons, NY:  Paul Andrew Stoep, much loved brother, husband, father, grandfather, uncle, friend, and neighbor, passed away suddenly on February 14, 2024.  He was born on March 2, 1961 in Delhi, NY.  His mother Jean (Deter) Stoep, father Andrew Stoep, his sister Robin Stoep, and his brother David Stoep have gone to be with their Savior before him. He is survived by his brother Peter (Paige) and sister Elizabeth (Sheri), his wife of 41 years, Deborah, his children Benjamin (Kimberly) Stoep, Joshua (Alisa) Stoep, Johanna (Gregory) Schmitter, and Emily (Michael) Swierenga, and their children, respectively: Eli, Audrey, Jacob; Silas, Gracel, Calvin, Titus; Frank, Waylon, Paul, Deacon; Leonard, Arthur; mother-in-law Marilee Lindner; nephews and nieces, Lucas, Leisel, and Levi Stoepbrother-in-law David (Susie) Lindner and their children Anna Lindner, Justin Lindner, and Julia Lindner.

Paul was a lifelong member of the East Palmyra Christian Reformed Church. After attending the East Palmyra Christian School and graduating from Lyons High School in 1979, Paul attended Calvin College, and was married to Deborah (Lindner) on August 26, 1982. He and his brothers were dairy farmers for many years. Paul opened a gravel pit business in 2002, partnered with son Joshua in 2013, and continued crop farming to the present. Paul has been a hunter, a hiker, a paddler, a fisherman, a syrup maker, and a gifted vocalist, poet, storyteller, and songwriter. He has played guitar in many venues. We are grateful for his full and selfless life. Paul glorified his Lord through his hard work, his unconditional love for his family, and his dedication to the teachings of his church and the mission of all believers.

Paul’s home-going service will be held at the East Palmyra Christian Reformed Church, on Monday, February 26th, 2024. Coffeetime will be from 12 noon to 2 pm, the funeral at 2 pm, and supper immediately following.  Burial will be held privately at the Stoep Family Farm.

In the Reformed tradition, church, home, and school form the “3-legged stool” which is the foundation of a Christian life. In honor of Paul’s value of strong families, deep faith, and Christian education, memorial gifts may be directed to your preference below: We thank you. Care Net of Wayne County, 1141 E. Union St., Newark, NY 14513, East Palmyra Christian Reformed Church, 2057 E. Palmyra Port Gibson Rd., Palmyra, NY 14522, or the East Palmyra Christian School, 2023 E. Palmyra Port Gibson Rd., Palmyra, NY 14522.  To send a condolence or share a memory please visit:  www.doughertyfuneralhomes.com

 

Gerald “Jerry” Ryder ~ February 6, 2024

Springwater: At age 71, Jerry passed suddenly on Tuesday, February 6, 2024. He is survived by his wife, Martha, (Jopson) Ryder, brother, Douglas Ryder, nephew, Cory Ryder, and numerous cousins. Jerry was predeceased by his parents, Roland and Clara Ryder, sister-in-law, Terry Ryder, and nephew, Douglas Ryder Jr.

Jerry and Martha have been together for 48 years. He retired from the Brighton School District after 30+ years of service. When Jerry was younger, he enjoyed working on the farm with his grandfather, cousins and working on automobiles. He also looked forward to going out and listening to local bands, playing euchre, watching NASCAR, and watching his favorite football teams, the Kansas City Chiefs and the Buffalo Bills.

Friends and family are invited to call from 4-6PM on Thursday, February 15, 2024 at the Kevin Dougherty Funeral Home, 21 Big Tree Street in Livonia NY, where Jerry’s Memorial Service will take place following calling. Burial will take place Monday, May 13, 2024, 2:00 pm at the Ridge Road-Falls Cemetery, Rochester, New York. Memorial contributions can be made in Jerry’s name to: Wilmont Cancer Center 300 E. River Road, PO Box 278996 Rochester, NY 14627 To share a memory or a condolence, please visit: www.doughertyfuneralhomes.com

Michael David Hilimire ~ February 6, 2024

 

Geneseo/Livonia, NY: Michael David Hilimire, age 37, passed away on Tuesday, February 6, 2024 at his home in Geneseo.

He was predeceased by his wife, Peggy O’Neil Hilimire, his Grandparents David and Linda Scoville. Richard and Marilyn Hilimire. His Uncle Rick Hilimire.

He is survived by his beloved daughter Isla. His parents Ron and Allison Hilimire, his brothers, Matthew (Laura) Hilimire, and Thomas (Nicole) Hilimire. Heather McFarlane (Isla’s mother), many aunts, uncles, and cousins.

Michael was born April 30, 1986 in Rochester NY to Ron and Allison Hilimire. He was a graduate of Livonia High School and Monroe Community College.

He went on to form his own woodworking business from the ground up, specializing mainly in guitar making. He is a very talented artist and guitar player, he plays both bass and acoustic. He enjoyed the outdoors, snowboarding, and hiking, especially with his black lab Nero.

His proudest moment came with the birth of his daughter Isla. He beamed when speaking of her and loved to show her pictures off, he truly loved being a father.
She was his happy place.

Michael surely was never a conformist, and you knew exactly where you stood with him. He did it his way, always, since birth. He lived a pretty active and interesting life. His friends and family will deeply miss him.

Friends and family are invited to call from 4-7PM on Tuesday, February 13, 2024 at the Kevin Dougherty Funeral Home, 21 Big Tree Street in Livonia NY, where Michael’s Memorial Service will take place at 11 AM on Wednesday, February 14, 2024. Interment will immediately follow at St. Michael’s Cemetery on Shelly Road in Livonia. A luncheon will take following the graveside service at the Harrison-Lee American Legion, 3850 Federal Road in Livonia, NY,  all are welcome. To share a memory or a condolence, please visit: www.doughertyfuneralhomes.com.  Suicide Hotline: (988) Life-Line

Roberta L. Paul ~ February 6, 2024

Geneseo: At age 85, Roberta passed away peacefully on Tuesday, February 6, 2024 at Strong Memorial Hospital in Rochester, NY. She was born on August 22, 1938 to the late Robert and Jeanne Dickie. Roberta is predeceased by her daughter Erika Lynne Paul. Survived by her beloved husband of 61 years, Roland A. Paul; her children, Alissa de Wit-Paul, Robert Paul, Stephen Paul, Rebecca Paul; and her grandchildren, Audrey de Wit, Rian de Wit, Claire Paul and Katherine Paul.

Roberta will be remembered for her kindness, curiosity, and love of learning.  She was a teacher at School 12 in Rochester.  Loved history and was a member of the Genesee Country Antique Dealers Assoc., where she organized the annual sale at Nazareth College.  Roberta was a member of the Retired Teachers Garden Club and found many wonderful speakers to present to them.  She loved music, being an organist and pianist herself, had season tickets to the RPO, Flower City Jazz, and encouraged her family to love music as well.  Roberta loved travelling and has travelled to 6 out of 7 of the continents.  And finally Roberta loved God and was an active parishioner at Atonement Lutheran Church, and later St. Timothy’s Lutheran Church.

A graveside service was held privately at Temple Hill Cemetery in Geneseo, NY. A Celebration of Life Service will be on Saturday, March 23rd, at 1pm at St. Timothy Lutheran Church, 5015 Lakeville Road, Rte 20A, Geneseo, NY.  In lieu of flowers, memorial contributions may be made to: Genesee Country Antique Dealers Association, Historical Grants, c/o Scott Fine, 170 Heatherstone Ln. Rochester, NY 14618. To share a memory or a condolence, please visit: www.doughertyfuneralhomes.com

 

John R. Kelly ~ January 31, 2024

Conesus: At age 80, John passed away peacefully with his family by his side on Wednesday, January 31, 2024 at his home in Conesus. He was born in Rochester, NY to the late James and Virginia Kelly.  John is predeceased by his step-mother, Margaret Kelly.  Survived by his beloved wife of 63 years, Sue  (Eury) Kelly; his children, Todd (Gail) Kelly, Robert (Judy) Kelly, Mary (Robert) Mastin, Virginia (Franklin) Taylor, Wayne (Korana) Kelly, Scott Kelly, Shawn (Lesley) Kelly; his siblings, Cheryl (Mike) Barcomb, Albert (Lynne) Kelly, his 21 grandchildren; his 15 great-grandchildren; and many nieces and nephews, along with his dear friend Robert Glenn, amongst many other close friends.

Friends and family are invited to call from 10AM-12PM on Saturday, February, 10, 2024 at the Ridgeland Community Church, 260 Beckwith Road in West Henrietta, NY, where John’s memorial service will immediately follow at 12PM. In lieu of flowers, a memorial contribution may be made to: Open Door Mission, P.O. Box 14236, Rochester, NY 14614-0236. To share a memory or a condolence, please visit: www.doughertyfuneralhomes.com