Sodus: At age 65, Lila passed away on January 17, 2024. She was born on April, 1, 1958. Survived by her husband; Kurt Bethmann, Daughter; Kim, grandsons: Marcel and Elijah. Several siblings and in-laws; Desiree (Terrie), Eric (Susan), Christopher (Michelle), Dennis (Susan) and Bruce as well as many nieces and nephews. Close friends; Veronica Reitter, Kirk (Robyn) Miller. Predeceased by her Adoptive Parents; Lawrence and Ellen Ober and Mother-in-law; Barbara Bethmann-Mahooty.

Lila loved her family and friends, along with her work family at the Department of Motor Vehicles and Traffic Court. She had many special friends who enjoyed kayaking, taking trips and camping. Lila was of Mohawk heritage and she volunteered and worked at Ganondagan Historic Site in Victor, NY, learning about her Native American background and traditions.

Friends and family are invited to call from 10am-12pm on Thursday, January 25th, 2024 at the Kevin W. Dougherty Funeral Home, 21 Big Tree Street in Livonia where Lila’s Funeral Service will be held at 12pm, following calling hours. Burial will be at the Union Cemetery, Scottsburg, NY after her funeral service. Luncheon will follow at the Deer Run Winery at 3772 West Lake Road, Geneseo, NY 14454; please send a note to Desiree Bethmann if attending luncheon at email: desireebethmann@gmail.com

Memorial Contributions may be made in Lila’s name to: Cracker Box Palace, 6450 Shaker Road, Alton, NY 14516 an animal shelter in Alton, NY also Friends of Ganondagan, P.O. Box 113, Victor, NY 14564

Arrangements were made by the Kevin W. Dougherty Funeral Home, 21 Big Tree Street, Livonia, NY 14487. To share a memory or a condolence, please visit: www.doughertyfuneralhomes.com

Honeoye Falls: Carol Schaffner, died peacefully at home at the age of 91 on January 10, 2024.  She was predeceased by Clair, her husband of 64 years, their son Scott and her brother, Donald Lowdermilk.

Carol was raised in Uniontown, PA, daughter of Orie and Alta Lowdermilk.  She graduated from Juniata College with a BS in elementary education.  Carol and Clair met in college and married in 1954.  They moved to the Geneva/Seneca Lake area where they raised their children: Diane (Mike) Karlsen, Bonnie (Clif) Wright, and Lori (John) Scherer.  She was blessed with grandchildren: Jessica (Mike) Ripple, Shawn (Theresa) Wright, Abby (Shawn) Dunphy, Stacey (Tyler) Monnat, Colby Wright, Morgan and Dylan Scherer; and GREAT grandchildren: Hayden and Maya Ripple, Logan Wright, Cooper and Riley Monnat.  Being with her family was where she was the happiest.

Carol was an active member of the First Baptist Church of Geneva and was a volunteer in many community organizations. She moved to Pinehurst in Honeoye Falls, NY and made many good friends.

In keeping with Carol’s wishes, in lieu of flowers, she leaves you with Matthew 25:40 – whatever you do for one of the least of these brothers and sisters of mine, you did for me.  So, “give from your heart.  Do what you can to help someone else. Give of your time, talent, or money, to a place where you can make a difference.  Do a kind deed to make the world a better place.  Take someone to lunch, make a phone call to someone who may be lonely, visit a shut-in, give to someone in need.”

Please join Carol’s family to celebrate her life at the First Baptist Church of Geneva on February 24, 2024.  There will be a service at 11:00 am followed by calling hours in the fellowship hall.  For those wishing to write a note of condolence, please send to: The Schaffner Family, c/o 2228 Dutch Hollow Road, Avon, New York 14414. To share a memory please visit: www.doughertyfuneralhomes.com.

Lakeville/Rochester: When her earth time was over, Rosalind passed on January 9, 2024, for eternal life. She passed peacefully at home after enjoying a day with her daughter and playing cards with her fellow bridge enthusiasts.

Preceded by mother Marion Lindsay LoDico and father Joseph Richard LoDico, sister Terryl (John) Heneghan, daughter Kimberly Smith Freund, and her husband Charles Acker Smith. Survived by son Charles (Deborah) Smith, daughter Pamela (Craig) Smith Perkins, son-in-law Gregory Freund, grandchildren Tatiana and Alexis Freund, Matthew Stromecki, and Ariana Smith, and sister-in-law Betsy Bardee Nichols. Also survived by extended beloved family – Susan, Richard, Sally, Douglas, and Mark, as well as countless nieces, nephews, and longtime friends.

Rosalind grew up in Rochester’s 19th Ward and graduated from West High School.  Following high school, she attended the University of Rochester and Rochester General Hospital School of Nursing. As an RN she worked in the ED at Rochester General Hospital. She was a dedicated nurse and remained active in the alumni association throughout her lifetime.

After moving to Conesus Lake/Lakeville she met and married her husband. Eventually she worked alongside him in their family business which became a longtime staple in Lakeville.

Her connections and impact on people can be seen in the community she built within her neighborhood, church, and beloved bridge group at St. John’s. Rosalind also spent her younger days volunteering with religious education, the local food pantry, and as a member of the Garden Club.

Rosalind was a gracious and welcoming host to all, and she delighted in entertaining others. Her artistic side came out in all her preparations and her attention to detail. She so enjoyed the company of others and they in turn so enjoyed her.

The beauty Rosalind saw in life came from her passion for animals, nature, theater, and being with her family. When one thinks of Rosalind, it is impossible to overlook her appreciation for the little moments. The memories her loved ones hold are her smiles during a boat ride on Conesus Lake, her fresh homemade sauce at a family dinner, and her giggles when holding a new puppy in her lap.

Mostly though, it was her love of family and friends that will be most missed and cherished. They gave her great joy and she was sure to let each one know how much love she had for them. She will always be remembered for her kindness, her love, and her tender care.

At Rowie’s request no prior calling hours will be held. Her Funeral Mass will be held at 10:30am on Friday, January 19th, at St. Matthew Catholic Church, 6591 Richmond Mills Road, Rte 20A, Livonia, NY 14487. Burial will be held privately at Union Cemetery, Livonia, NY. In lieu of flowers memorial contributions may be made to:   Golisano Children’s Hospital, 300 East River Road, P.O. Box 278996, Rochester, NY 14627. To send a condolence or share a memory please visit: www.doughertyfuneralhomes.com

Livonia: At age 79, Sole passed away on January 7, 2024. She was born on February 13, 1944 to the late Jose and Angelica Loayza. Survived by her sons; David Tewksbury Jr. of Livonia, NY, John (Tomomi) Tewksbury of Livonia, NY, daughter; Cristina (David) Rowley of Hemlock, NY, sisters; Rosa (John) Heuvelman of Arizona, Amparo (Jorge) Cateriano of Peru, grandchildren; Kiera, Patrick, Alexander, Michelle, Alberto, Christian and Angela. Sole was predeceased by her husband; David L. Tewksbury Sr.

Soledad grew up in Arequipa, Peru. She was extremely proud of her heritage, and her home city. Her extraordinary beauty and sense of style was only exceeded by her unmatched work ethic and fierce sense of independence. Upon moving to the United
States, Soledad immediately took two jobs and excelled at both of them. She spent over 40 years providing care and comfort to residents of the Conesus Lake Nursing Home. Her kindness and dedication to her patients will long be remembered by their families.

Soledad left an impression on everyone who met her, radiating elegance, charm, and kindness. She will be dearly missed by all who had the privilege to know her.

Family and friends may call on Friday, January 19th, from 4-7 pm at the Kevin W. Dougherty Funeral Home, Inc. Routes 15 & 20A, 21 Big Tree Street, Livonia, NY. Sole’s Funeral Mass will be held at 10:30 am on Saturday, January 20th, at St. Matthew Catholic Church, 6591 Richmond Mills Road, Rte 20A, Livonia, NY. Burial
will be held privately.

Soledad’s funeral service will be live streamed and can be watched by going to the following link:  Soledad’s Funeral Service.

Memorial contributions may be made in Sole’s name to St. Jude’s Children’s Research Hospital, 501 St. Jude Place, Memphis, TN 38105.  Arrangements made by the Kevin W. Dougherty Funeral Home, 21 Big Tree Street, Livonia, NY 14487. To share a memory or a condolence, please visit: www.doughertyfuneralhomes.com

Rush: At age 90, Allen passed away on Tuesday, January 2, 2024 at his home in Rush. He was born on May 4,1933 to the late John and Marion Cole. Allen is predeceased by his wife of 61 years, Patricia Cole; his son, Scott Cole; and his siblings, Alice Loomer, Ron Cole and Jack Cole. Survived by his sons, Michael (Melody) Cole and Mark (Tracie) Cole; his grandchildren, Christie (Brent) Currie, Jillian Cole, Kasey (Maxwell) Richardson, Scott (Kelly) Cole, Valerie (Issiac) Hartunen, Christina McCartney, and his 4 Great grandchildren, Luna, Cole, Bowdie Allen & Olivia along with several nieces and nephews.

Friends and family are invited to call from 4-7pm on Tuesday, January 9, 2024 at the Kevin W. Dougherty Funeral Home, 21 Big Tree Street in Livonia, where his funeral service will take place at 10AM on Wednesday, January 10, 2024. Internment will take place privately at St. Agnes Cemetery in Avon, NY. In lieu of flowers, memorial contributions can be made to: The ALS Association, 1300 Wilson Blvd, Suite 600, Arlington, VA 22209. To share a memory or a condolence, please visit: www.doughertyfuneralhomes.com

Livonia: Sally Elizabeth (Owen) Rosicka peacefully departed this world on Monday, January 1, 2024 at the age of 84. Sally is predeceased by her husband, Joseph Rosicka and parents Thomas and Margery Owen. She is survived by her sister; Virginia (Alphonse) Philippy, children; Thomas (Donna) Rosicka, Daniel (Whitney) Rosicka, Joseph Rosicka lll, Rhiannon (David) McDevitt, and Sarah (Thomas) Thorjusen. She is also remembered fondly by her 7 grandchildren, one great-grandchild and numerous nieces and nephews who loved her dearly.

Born in Rochester, NY in 1939, Sally graduated from Rush Henrietta Central High School in 1956. She was an active Girl Scout and 4-H member, earning accolades for her exceptional skills in baking and sewing. She then went on to attend Wittenberg University in Springfield, Ohio, where she was a proud member of Chi Omega Sorority. Sally graduated with a Bachelor of Science in Education in 1960.

During her senior year at Wittenburg University, she met her future husband and love of her life, Joseph. They were married shortly thereafter in St. Mary’s Church in Canandaigua, NY. Sally and Joe returned to Springfield, Ohio where she lived for 20+ years, raising her children and aided her husband in the running of the family paving business, Springfield Blacktop. She was a devoted mother, supporting all her children’s interests or activities and staunchly encouraged her children, never missing a game, concert or event. Sally greatly treasured her time with her grandchildren later in her years.

Sally and family returned to New York in the early 1980’s. Sally and Joe’s marriage was a testament to enduring love, lasting almost 40 years until Joe’s passing in 2000.

For more than 20 years, Sally worked for Finger Lakes Developmental Disabilities Service Office. She held various roles during her tenure there always serving with great compassion and great care. Incredibly intelligent, informed and multi-talented, Sally was an avid reader and frequent patron of local libraries. She was a skilled seamstress, cook, baker and gardener. Her green thumb could bring any plant back to life and all plants thrived from her attention.

Sally’s kind heart, selflessness, humility and quirky humor touched many lives. Many will remember Sally for her kindness and the way she naturally put people at ease in her company. She was an uncommonly strong woman who was fiercely devoted to her husband and their five children. Her legacy continues in the memories we hold and the example she set with her infinite patience and consideration for others.

While her passing brings sorrow, the knowledge that she is now at peace with God provides solace to those who mourn her departure. “Now may our Lord Jesus Christ himself, and God our Father, who loved us and gave us eternal comfort and good hope through grace, comfort your hearts and establish them in every good work and word” Thess. 2:16

Burial will be private. In lieu of flowers, memorial contributions can be made to: The Honeoye Public Library, 8708 Main St. Honeoye, NY 14471. Arrangements were made by the Kevin W. Dougherty Funeral Home, 21 Big Tree Street, Livonia, NY 14487. To share a memory or a condolence, please visit: www.doughertyfuneralhomes.com