Odessa, NY: Sandy was born on January 6, 1958 in Goshen, NY to the late Garry and Eleanor (De Vries) Van De Weert and passed unexpectedly on January 3, 2025, at age 66.
Survived by her husband of 42 years, Edward Dykshoorn and children; Kimberly (Matthew) Garippa of Southport, NC, Greg (Tara) Dykshoorn of Odessa, Kayla (Matthew) Kelly of Montour Falls, Steven Dykshoorn of Erwin, and Thomas (Nigel) Dykshoorn of Dryden; grandchildren, Lilli, Hudson, Finnley, Jaxson, and Wesley; siblings, Elaine (Jack) Malda of Cato, Garry (Joan) Van De Weert of Goshen, Cheryl (Peter) Schwarz of Newburgh, Roy (Henrietta) Van De Weert of Goshen, Darlene (Douglas) De Vries of MI, James (Rosemary) Van De Weert, and David Van De Weert both of Geneseo; also survived by many nieces, nephews, and friends, and her church family at the Montour Falls United Methodist Church.
Sandy always wanted the best for everyone. She was a wonderful wife, mother, grandma, daughter, sister, nurse and friend. Always there to offer a smile, whether she loved a person or had never seen them before. Sandy gave of herself without ever thinking of what she would get in return. She always had the best gifts made of the most simplest, heartfelt things. Selfless, although an understatement, is the best word to describe Sandy. She had the biggest heart.
A Memorial Service to Celebrate Sandy’s Life will be held at 11am on Saturday, January 11th, at the Montour Falls United Methodist Church, 128 Owego Street, Montour Falls, NY. A luncheon will follow the service and all are welcome. Interment will be held privately in the future. Memorial contributions may be made in Sandy’s Memory to the Montour Falls United Methodist Church, PO Box 309, Montour Falls, NY 14865 or the Alzheimer’s Association, 200 Meridian Centre Blvd, Suite 110, Rochester, NY 14618. To send a condolence or share a memory please visit: www.doughertyfuneralhomes.com
We were so sorry to learn of Sandy’s passing. No Matter where you ran into Sandy, she had a smile and asked about our family. The hill won’t be so bright without her. Our thoughts and prayers are with her family. Jim and Barb Halpin
Ohhhh Sandy! The world is a dimmer place without you in it. I’m sorry I didn’t know, or I would have come to say goodbye. I worked with Sandy for a short time at Family Medicine and she was a light in the darkness. Flustered but always with a great big smile. She was an absolute sweetheart, and I will forever remember her loving disposition. May the memories comfort you all in the days ahead. I am so very sorry for your loss! <3
I remember Sandy as a young nurse. Full of energy and always with a big smile. My condolences to Cheryl and other family members. May your memories of Sandy bring you peace.
Sandy was such a bright light. Always willing to care and listen to others. Much love to a beautiful lady and her family.
I am saddened to hear about Sandy’s passing. I always enjoyed chatting with her at the library. She always brought a smile. My thoughts and prayers are with Ed, Kayla and all of Sandy’s family.
I just recently got to know Sandy through church. She seemed like a very nice person, and will be missed sitting in her pew at church. Prayers to her whole family for strength at this hard time.
I am so saddened to hear of Sandy’s passing. I always enjoyed our conversations about new books, authors, and library programs. My heartfelt condolences to her family and friends. May peace be with you.
Dear Ed and Family,
So sorry to read about Sandy’s passing. As a friend and neighbor from the hill, she will be dearly missed by all who loved her.
Sandy was such a sweetheart. Heaven has definitely gained an Angel.
So very sorry to learn of your passing Sandy. My condolences to your entire family and your many friends. It was always a pleasure working with you at AHH. You’ll truly be missed by so many people. Rest in heavenly peace Sandy.
Sandy always was the person who had the friendliest greeting for you, no matter how long it had been since you had seen her. She would yell across a parking lot to make sure she said hello.
Our family was blessed to know her in two different capacities. The first being, friends because our girls were friends. I never hesitated to let my daughter go to the Dykshoorn house because I knew that Sandy kept a close eye on all of “her” children. She treated them all the same, with love and a strict watchful eye.
The second capacity that we knew Sandy in was her professional role as a nurse. She was my father-in-law’s hospice nurse when he had cancer. To say she was an angel in that role is an understatement. Not only did she take care of my father-in-law ‘s needs and pain management; she met our family’s emotional needs in dealing with his passing. Sandy now has her heavenly wings that she so deserves.
My thoughts, prayers and condolences are with her family. I hope you all find some comfort in knowing how many lives your Mom, and Wife has touched, comforted, and changed for the better. Sandy Dykshoorn will be missed by many. Love you all. Deb Switzer and family.
I will miss you so much. We were talking about 3 weeks ago and you had to get off the phone, but said,”I will call you back.” Never did. You are now in Glory with Jesus and finally happy!! I love you my sweet cousin, and am missing you already..
We are so sorry to learn of Sandy’s passing. I’ve known Sandy for many years through the healthcare field. Sandy always had a smile! She would stop by in years past to pick rhubarb from our big plants on her way home. No doubt, Sandy baked some delicious goodies. Our thoughts and prayers are will you all.
Cindy and Gary Emerson
Dear Sandy’s family,
I was sad to hear of Sandy’s passing. I remember Sandy very well from her days at Arden Hill Hospital. As you celebrate her life, may memories lighten your grief ridden hearts. May God grant you peace and comfort as travel the journey of grief and mourning. With sincere sympathy, Peggy Emond
Tom,I am so sorry to hear of your Moms passing.She sounded like a beautiful lady.May she RIP…
My deepest sympathy to all of the family…praying for strength and courage for you all….Always in the Father’s hands….much love, Marie Nywening