Conesus: Jeffrey R. Becker passed away on February 10, 2021 after losing a fighting battle with liver and kidney failure. He was 58 years old.
Jeff is survived by his loving wife of 32 years, Susan (Szczesniak) Becker; son, Justin Becker; daughter, Alyssa Becker; his mother Judi Bill Becker; siblings Jim (Lori) Becker, Robert Becker (Floyd Godfrey), Lori (Jen) Downey, as well as several nieces & nephews, cousins and close friends. He is predeceased by his father, Richard Becker.
Jeff worked as a Police Officer for 25+ years, serving both the Livingston County Sheriff’s Department and the Greece Police Department.
Family and friends may call on Tuesday, February 16th, from 4-7pm at the Kevin W. Dougherty Funeral Home Inc., 21 Big Tree St, Rte 15 & 20A, Livonia, NY. At Jeff’s request no formal funeral services will be held. A Celebration of Life Gathering will be held at a later date, details to follow. In lieu of flowers, memorials can be made to the Teresa House, 21 Highland Road, Geneseo, NY 14454. To send a condolence or to share a memory please visit: www.doughertyfuneralhomes.com
I am so very sorry to hear about Jeff’s passing. Sue, please know that my thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
My sincere condolences to the Becker family.
Sue, Alyssa, Justin and family – our dear friends/ family:
We are broken-hearted as you know how special Jeff and you all are to us. May God comfort you all through this time and know that our prayers, love and hugs have always have been and always will be with you all. We love you Jeff, may you rest in peace and comfort
I really have no words to say, that will make the pain go away. I’ve been trying and trying to come up with the fitting words that would sooth the souls of all those who knew you, but too many good things to say about Jeff (Beefy) that my head began to smoke as the words just got all mumbled in my head and they never made it to the paper. So than I thought, Hey, I will Google it to get some help and guidance. That was not one of my finest hours or best choice when it comes to something needed of this magnitude, that is not the place to turn.. You cannot get words doing a search on Google, or try to pull together the few brain cells I have left to put down the right words. Well there just aren’t any words in those to places, so I decided to write directly from the heart. So here we go!
He was a one of a kind person. If you were lucky enough to have known him in any capacity, you know exactly what I’m talking.about.
Thank God I grew up with him and knew that the size of his body, defined nothing about him except that he was a BIG Man. People in college that would see him for first time and they where instantly frightened of him. I had to chuckle every time I witnessed this. he in turn chuckled when people first saw me (for exactly all the opposite reason). When they walked by me, they would come closer towards me and blowing like heck at me. They were thinking I was a walking piece of paper with a big nose. The classic bullying thing., But Jeff and I were for sure Totally opposites, but yet we were totally the same in how we saw life, how we saw each other for what they were as a whole, not a a big guy, thin guy. I just reflect on those amazing years and others years that followed that were the best of times.
Then we became further and further apart between by distance, each raising a family and trying to supply for our family and put food on the table. But when that part of our lives were by us enough where we could see each other, then distance from one another got in the way. Today, the distance is unfortunately to far away. However, all I have to do is just look up while , standing, sitting, or kneeling and look towards the heavens and say, hey big fella, I know you’re up there and already passed through those golden gates and led into somewhere you never dreamed was such a splendid comfortable and just the greatest place you’ve ever seen. I use the Willy Wonka Chocolate factory feeling land what it must of felt like for Charlie to be fortunate to get the last golden ticket to see a place he could only imagine and he got there it was 1,000 time better than what his dreams looked like. So down here on the big blue ball where all of us who were fortunate to know you here, I’m not sadden that your gone, because I know I’ll be seeing you soon up there in paradise. And I know that in my heart of hearts, that You, Boup, Jeff Perry will be awaiting my arrival with a funnels in one hand and a bucket in the other. So I’m decided that I’m going to celebrate your life my friend and I know your in good hands. I know that in my heart, because when I think of that picture I just described to be real, a warmth like a warmth I’ve never felt before just comes over me and my whole body, it can only mean it’s a sign of how truly good you are and I feel how you three are excited to be with me again, BUT ONLY, if I would or could put on a few more pounds so people will STOP blowing on me. Rest in piece my friend. I will love ?? you for always and until we see each other again. God bless Jeff every day and every night reminding him how much he’ll be missed and how much he is loved and before he knows it we will all be together again. From your Loving Adopted Brother for all time. Love always!, Bird Man) Ken
Joe and Sue Gavin
Our thoughts are with you and your family.
Sending love for your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with all of your family and you. RIP Jeff
So sorry for your loss!
Sue and family. I am so sorry for your loss. Hugs for you all.
I am so sorry for the loss of another force of nature. Sue, Justin and Alyssa you are in my thoughts and prayers and I am just a few houses away. Always.
Love to you all
My condolences to Jeff’s family and friends at this difficult time.
A really good guy and great family man and great police officer who cared about those he served and those he served with , he will be missed by everyone and earned his seat in Heaven. He made a very positive difference.
Sorry for your loss, Jeff was a good friend
Even when you know it’s coming it’s still a shock & it still hurts. It’s not fair but I guess one has to believe they are needed elsewhere more than here. Yet another Gentle Giant has been taken from us. Rest in peace my good, good man.
So sorry to hear Sue and family! Jeff was a great guy. Our thoughts are with you!
Sue and family, So sorry for your loss. My family and Dicks family are praying for you.
My deepest sympathy to the entire family. He was a great guy and neighbor. I’m so blessed to have known him. RIP.
Rest in Peace!
“Rest In Peace Brother!!”
Susan, Justin, Alyssa and family. So very so to hear about Jeff. Many found memories at the lake, phony league baseball, get togethers. Thoughts and prayers are with you at this difficult time. He was a great guy to hang with, laughs, to our several conversions. Blums. hugs ..oooo
I will truly remember him as one of my favorite students, a happy kid who worked hard to graduate and shared his joy and gratitude with me that June day long ago.
Rest easy, Jeff.
Sue and family- So sorry to hear this news. Jeff always greeted me with a big smile and happy to stop and talk. Such a great guy! He will truly be missed. Hugs and prayers to you!
Sue and Family I am so sorry to hear of your Loss. You and your Family will be in my Thoughts and Prayers. God Bless, Clayton Taft
Sherman and I are so very sorry to hear about this. Many wonderful memories with Jeff and Sue. Our deepest heartfelt condolences go out to Sue, the kids and the entire family. Our thoughts and prayers are with you all
Please know of our love and prayers. Jeff was a good and gentle man who was loved by his wife and children and all who knew him.
I am so sorry for your loss. Jeff was a great guy and it was a privilege to know him. My thoughts and prayers are with your family.