Conesus Lake: December 27, 2015 at age 72 years. Predeceased by son Larry McMindes and brother Lester McMindes. Survived by loving partner Carol Mixon; children, Laura (Russ) Page of Leicester and Michael (Pam) McMindes of Rochester; Grandchildren, Brandon McMindes, Melissa McMindes, Tricia (Matt) Gallo, Sarah Page, Christopher Page, Alex McMindes, Lizzie McMindes, Tommy McMindes, and great-granddaughter Emma Gallo. Also survived by sisters; Shirley (Bob) Kuehne, Sharon (Vince) Peek, and Sheila (Joe) Callahan, daughter-in-law Lisa Knick, several aunts & uncles, many nieces & nephews, cousins, and friends. The family wishes to thank the caring staff at Strong Memorial Hospital Burn/ Trauma ICU.
Harlo was always young at heart. As a young man working on the family farm Harlo learned the work ethic he passed on to his children and grandchildren. His passions emerged early on, wrecking every car he owned as a young man and restoring them as an “old” man. His sisters share stories of his love and of his torturing them as only a brother can. As an adult his love of motors and speed were apparent to all. He was known for his motorcycles, boats and cars. As a life-long hunter, the time spent with family and friends was more important than the hunt. The highlight of his year was the 3rd of July celebration at his home on Conesus Lake. Carol and Harlo shared their love for the lake with everyone, and everyone was welcome. Family was the most important gift to him and he was the best gift to them.
A Celebration of Life Gathering will be held at the family home on Conesus Lake in the Summer of 2016. Memorial contributions may be made to Teresa House, 21 Highland Road, Geneseo, NY 14454 or Geneseo Parish Outreach Center, 4520 Genesee Street, Geneseo, NY 14454. Arrangements entrusted to the Kevin W. Dougherty Funeral Home Inc., Livonia-Honeoye. To send a condolence please visit: www.doughertyfuneralhomes.com
Dear Carol and McMindes Family,
We were so shocked and saddened to hear of Harlo’s passing. As little as we knew him, we always enjoyed seeing him and listening to great car tales, and Carol, any story always included you, and what you thought, enjoyed and wanted to do.
Please know that the Donovan Family will be glad to help in any way possible. Harlo is at peace with the Lord but his spirit will always be with you.
To the McMindes Family: My condolences to all of you at this very difficult time. May your many cherished memories and the promises of God (Revelation 21:3-5; Isaiah 33:24), strengthen you, as you mourn the loss of your loved one. I am sorry for your loss.
Our hearts are hurting for your loss, Carol. What a wonderful man Harlo was and a friend to all of us who were privileged to know him. We are here in Florida and want you to know that ALL of our family are praying for your continued strength.
Carol & Family,
So shocked and saddened to hear of Harlo’s passing. Our thoughts and prayers are with you all. May you rest in peace Harlo.
Dearest Carol,
So sorry to hear about Harlo’s passing. As you know, Hil and I met him only once, however he couldn’t have been nicer to us in the brief time that we spent with you two. As it turned out, both Harlo and I were “car guys”, and we have since talked about him often……..Rest in Peace Harlo…….
All of our love
Hil and Dale
Words cannot express well enough what we all have lost with Harlo’s passing. He was a big brother, patient tutor and mentor and most of all an enduring friend. Always with a big smile and a great story. So sad that we’ve lost you but so glad that you were part of our life.
A name from the (distant) past. Harlo & I graduated from neighboring high schools back in Steuben County and are the same age. Harlo spent some time as a DHIA supervisor and became a great favorite of my parents on their dairy farm. My condolences to family. You are saying goodbye to one of the most goodhearted men who ever walked this earth.
I worked with harlo for many years. Always had a smile, great guy!
Dear Carol and all of your family,
We were so sad when we heard of Harlo’s passing. He was a friend all through school and our recent get togethers only reinforced our friendship once again. Like everyone who knew him – his infectious smile and easy ways endeared him to one and all. Our thoughts and prayers are with you at this sad time.
May all your memories of him keep him forever in your hearts until you are with him again.
With love and prayers. Jim and Jeannene
Our deepest sympathy are with you and your family. He will be missed greatly and forever in our hearts. RIP Harlo.
Carol and Family
We are so sorry for your loss, you are all in our thoughts and prayers.
Harlo, wow still be in stock from finding this news out. A tremendous loss to all and those who knew him you can stay he was a great friend , a mentor to many and a hell of a host at his parties. He made it easy to be on the receiving side of his famous cooking and made sure you had a smile while being a part of a great event July 3rd. Harlo, I hope your riding in a sports car with your hat or running a piece of equipment, as you have numerous times. Until we meet again my friend, you will be missed. The King family
We just heard of Harlo’s passing. We are so sorry for your loss. He was a great guy who always had a smile. He will be sadly missed by all that knew him. Please know we are thinking of you at this very difficult time.
Hadn’t heard this. So sorry, everyone. Didn’t know Harlow well, but certainly did know him. Grew up in the same town and went to the same school.
Carol,
I can not tell you how sad we all are to hear this very sad news. You know how much we all loved this great man. We will all think of him often. We love you and if you need us please call. Please let Eric an I cook on the day that you all (A Celebration of Life Gathering).
Here is part of an article Eric wrote in the magazine (life in the finger lake) back in 2008 it was about Harlo
Recently, an old fishing buddy of mine confessed that he didn’t like mussels (one of my favorite “bivalves”) or mushrooms either, due to their texture. He hasn’t eaten Brussels sprouts since he was about 10 years old, when his mother served them boiled.
But he always jumps at the chance to have me cook for him. Later that day, we went to the grocery store to buy some ingredients for dinner, and I purchased Brussels sprouts, mushrooms and two big bags of mussels. My friend looked at me and said, “Didn’t I just get done telling you I don’t like any of those things?”
I replied, “Be prepared to like them all when I get done cooking.” And he did.
So sorry for your loss Harlo and his family made so many memories in the early years when we meet again buddy we have a lot to talk about miss you buddy
Laura and Family,
I am very sorry for your loss, my thoughts and prayers are with you all.
So sorry for your loss, Harlo will be sadly missed, he was a good friend. Always smiling and long talks.
Our Deepest Sympathy to Carol and all of the McMindes extended family. Harlo was a true best friend for over 40 years.We were blessed to know him & had many good times together! It is rare to find as fine a man as Harlo. He always had a big smile and good word for everyone he met. He had a big heart and loved all his family & friends. Harlo loved to talk and could talk for hours on almost any subject. Life will not be the same without Harlo. Heaven has a new angel! While we left on earth have a big empty hole in our hearts that no one else can fill.RIP my good friend.You will be missed but never forgotten! God Bless!
Dear Carol,
Judy and I want to extend our deepest sympathy for your loss! Harlo was always a pleasure to talk with! We hope you and his family will have the strength of the Lord to help you in this time of sorrow!
Sorry for your loss. Thoughts and prayers for the whole family.
We are so sorry for your loss. Harlo loved his family and his eyes would light up when he talked about them. I am so thankful to have been able to share my River with him on a visit and sit and talk with him. Tony and I felt like we had known him forever in just a short visit. Carol we are so glad that you and Harlo had such wonderful times together on “your” river and I pray that God will wrap his arms around you filling your heart with love, peace and joy in the memories that you have. We will forever think of him when see a boat go by really really fast. May God’s love and peace be with all of you during this difficult time. With love, Tony and Barry Markun.
Sorry for your loss. I have alot of fond memories of Harlo as a child. Taking us out to Conesus lake on his boat and pulling us on a board behind the boat.He will be sadly missed.
We were shocked to hear of Harlo’s passing. We have many fond memories of our times spent with him. Our thoughts and prayers are with you at this difficult time.
Dan, Sandra, and the Boys.
Dear Carol….. I am in shock. So sorry for your loss… I know you said that Harlo hadn’t been feeling well the last time we talked… My thoughts and prayer are with you and his family..
Theresa
Carol and Family,
Words cannot express the how sorry I am for you with the loss of Harlo. He is a wonderful man who always had a smile. He is so blessed to have Carol, such wonderful children and grandchildren. How blessed you all are. Know that he is still with you in a way he could never be on earth. If anything he is with you in your hearts. Know that so many love and are praying for you. Hugs to you all.
Great guy and friend! I enjoyed our times together whether it was a party, hunting excursion or just a personal conversation. Rest in peace my friend and have a toast on me with your Dad and Mom!
We are so very sorry for your loss. Our thoughts and prayers are with all of you.rip
Dear Michael and the entire McMindes family,
We send our deepest sympathies and are very saddened to hear the news of Harlo passing. He was truly a great man that had a superb love for family and Friends. I was fortunate to be able to know him and spend time in his company when I was growing up. He was always kind and straight forward with the truth, as well as being sportive. Many kids need that growing up. He was my first Cub Scout Pack Leader and a great dad to my best friend. I have always enjoyed Harlo’s company as I’m sure everyone that knew him did. I can see his smile and hear his laugh, which was always how it was when around him. God Bless Harlo, and all of his family, he will be missed.
Sincerest condolences,
Ned Stewart & family
My heart goes out to the family. Harlo was a wonderful man. He could tell a good story and we always enjoyed his special fudge recipe. Thinking of all of you at this time.