Honeoye: Darlene passed away peacefully and surrounded by her family and friends on Friday, February 7, 2025, at age 64 at Noyes Hospital, Dansville, NY. She was born on December 26, 1960. Darlene is pre-deceased by her parents Harvey & Norma (Wilson) Fisher, sisters, and brother-in-law, Donna (Mario) Misericka, and Denise Fisher. Survived by her husband Craig Deats, son, Spencer (Kelsey Hamilton) Deats, daughters, Brandy and Taylor Deats, Maggie (Lennon) Smith, sisters, Debbie (Keith) Klink, Diane Fisher, Dawn Byington and brother David (Joan) Fisher, granddaughter, Lorraine Ruth Deats. Darlene was a lover of dogs and wanted them remembered as well, Chance and Dan have passed, Bandit, Ms. Ellie, and Bella are still living.
Darlene wore many hats in life, each one crafted with care, strength, and love. She was a fierce warrior, ever protective of those she cared for, a trusted confidant, and a friend and sister who embodied kindness, empathy, and thoughtfulness. But for anyone who truly knew her, the titles that meant the most to Darlene were those of Mother and Wife. Her love for her children and husband was boundless—unwavering, unconditional, and selfless. She was the heart of her family, a true matriarch whose strength and devotion held them all together.
If you were fortunate enough to be welcomed into Darlene’s life, you felt her love and support without hesitation. She was nothing if not honest, so you could trust that she would let you know if you were accepted as part of her family or not. Her embrace was always accompanied by guidance, and if you stepped out of line, she wouldn’t hesitate to offer the same discipline she gave her own children, ensuring you grew and felt loved all the same.
Being around Darlene meant feeling empowered—she had a way of making you believe you could take on anything, and her home was a place of warmth and belonging. It was always full of laughter, love, and the presence of family. She was a steady source of wisdom, always just a phone call away, ready to offer advice or lend an ear. Darlene’s love was the foundation that made you feel part of something bigger—something special, something real.
Now, Forever, Always.
Per Darlene’s wishes, there will be no formal calling or service. Family and friends are invited to the Valley Inn at Honeoye Lake, 8970 Main St, Honeoye, NY 14471, on Saturday, February 15th, from 11AM until for a reception and gathering where food will be provided. A celebration of Life will be held at a later date and will be announced. To send a condolence or share a memory please visit: www.doughertyfuneralhomes.com
Condolences to the Deats family, from the family of Joan Conkey
This is Cathy Bennett, so sorry to hear about Darlene’s passing, my sympathy goes out to her family. Got to know her when I was taking care of her neighbor boy. Darlene use to put him on the bus and help get him off. She was a lovely, caring person. Heaven certainly has gained a beautiful angel.
Dear Craig and family,
We are so very sorry for the loss of your beloved Darlene. She was a wonderful lady to all that new and loved her. She will be greatly missed by all. She always had a true heart and a gentle soul. RIP Darlene and fly high. God Bless you and your entire family. If you need anything please let Glenn or myself know. With sincere sympathies. Love, Kimmi, Glenn, Alyssa and Cody
Craig and family,
So very sorry to hear of the passing of Darlene. No matter how her days were going she always had a smile and a friendly hello. She always wanted to help.
We are so very sorry to hear of your loss. Please know we are keeping you all in our hearts & thoughts.
Our sincerest sympathy to Craig and his family for their great loss. We pray you’ll find comfort in knowing Darlene’s in the Lord’s arms.
To Craig and to all family members, Amy and I want to send our sincere condolences and prayers to everyone. Craig, you and I have known one another for a very long time and my heart breaks for your loss. Although Amy and I cannot join you at the Valley Inn, rest assured we will be there in spirit and in prayer. God bless my friend.
Love,
Bob & Amy Belmont
Summerville, SC
So sorry to hear the news about Darlene. Sending you all lots of love! We are all thinking about you. Love, The Bruce Family
Craig and family, We were deeply saddened to hear of Darlene’s passing. Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family during this difficult time.
I am so sorry to hear of Darlene’s passing. From all I’ve read she was loved by the entire community. Prayers for the family.
So sorry to hear of Darlene’s passing. She was nice to everyone in high school and it sounds like everyone thought the world of her. Prayers for her family.
We extend our deep sympathy to all of Darlene’s family. She was a special lady & a fighter. She will surely be missed
Jim & Joan Briggs
We’re very sorry to hear of the passing of Darlene. Our thoughts & prayers are with all her loving family.
Pat & Larry Sliker
Craig, I am so sorry to hear of the loss of f Darlene. You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers.
So sad to learn of Darlene’s passing…our thoughts are with you and your family.
Sue and Bill Schneider
Sorry to hear of Darlene’s passing. Always a joy to speak with her. Prayers for her family
Sending prayers and healing hugs to Darlene’s family and many friends. She will greatly be missed and forever live in our hearts.
Much love,
Tom and Lisa
Darlene, you set a great example to the rest of us. You were always trying your best to help others. From working in the medical field, including EMS, to caring for a severely handicapped child among many other great things; you left the world a much better place.
We got to know Darlene a few years ago and are heartbroken with her passing. Getting together with Darlene and Craig was lots of fun and we will miss her dearly Our hearts go out to her family
I am so sorry to hear about your wife and mom. She always greeted me with a smile and hug. She will be missed by so many.