Bristol: Lou Ann passed away peacefully on April 5, 2023 at FF Thompson Hospital in Canandaigua, New York. She is survived by her husband Jeffrey, daughter Betsy (Andrew Lavin), son Greg (Kimberly), and two grandchildren Ethan and Meredith Kane. Over the past several years, Lou Ann was lovingly cared for by her husband Jeffrey, of 48 years, who provided at-home support for as long as possible. She was surrounded by the love of her family throughout her final days.
Known as a witty, strong willed, and generous individual, Lou Ann is someone who always did the right thing. As a graduate of Penn State University, she taught math for several years in Wilkes-Barre, Pennsylvania before moving to the Rochester area. She briefly continued teaching in Rochester before taking on the full-time job of raising her two children. For decades, Lou Ann also supported her husband’s business through daily administrative tasks. She was a devoted mother and spouse who enabled the success of each of her family members.
Lou Ann loved gardening, the outdoors, and being near the water. Her backyard gardens in Penfield were a naturally flowing landscape of unique flowers, berries, shrubs, and trees. The family vacations she planned were almost always to the Adirondack mountains or Maine, where she enjoyed taking short hikes and boat rides. Later in life, she moved to the southern hills of Bloomfield, on the border of Bristol, New York, and spent her time between there and Honeoye Lake, always enjoying the wildlife and scenery. She had an appreciation for cultural arts, supporting many years of music lessons for her children at the Hochstein School and Eastman School of Music, and liked to attend theater productions at Geva Theater.
Her legacy is perhaps best visible in the lives of her children, whom she cared for with an unrivaled level of commitment. Her daughter, Betsy, lives and works in the Adirondack Mountains and has without question inherited her passion for gardening and the great outdoors. Her son, Greg, is a music teacher, a direct result of Lou Ann’s promotion and support of music education, and tireless transportation to lessons and performances.
The family would like to thank the staff at both Thompson Hospital and the M.M. Ewing Continuing Care Center for the wonderful support, care, and dignity that they extended to Lou Ann during her final two months. In lieu of flowers or a donation, the family is encouraging you to plant something in your backyard this spring in honor of Lou Ann and think of Lou Ann’s love of gardening as you do so.
Calling hours will take place between 9:30am -11:30am on Saturday, April 8, 2023 at the Kevin W. Dougherty Funeral Home Inc., 8624 Main Street, Rte 20A, Honeoye, NY 14471. A brief service will follow at 11:30am at the funeral home and burial will follow at Lakeview Cemetery in Honeoye. To share a memory or a condolence, please visit: www.doughertyfuneralhomes.com
So sorry for your loss, Jeff and family.
Greg – so sorry to hear of your loss. Our thoughts are with you and your family – Tom and Paula Davis
Our deepest condolences. Prayers for you and you family.
Another Angel received Her Wings!
Our deepest condolences. Prayers for you and you family.
Another Angel received Her Wings!
I am so sorry to hear of your loss, and only wish I had more to say.
We are very sorry to hear of your loss. We will keep you and Lou Ann in our thoughts and prayers. Although we did not meet Lou Ann we know she was a wonderful person, just like you have been to us.
Dear Jeff may God be with you and your family my deep condolences go out to you.
My sincerest condolences to Jeff and his family. May God be with you all.
So very sorry to hear of your wife’s passing Jeff and family. I remember meeting Lou Ann many years ago and how kind and nice she was to me. May she rest in peace.
Sorry for your loss Jeff
Jeff…. So sorry for your loss…
So sorry for your loss Jeff. Praying for you and your family.
Jeff and family we are so sorry to hear about the passing of Lou Ann. Jeff we will keep you and your family in our prayers. May she be at rest with our Father in heaven.
So sorry for your loss, Jeff.
So very sorry to hear of your loss. Prayers sent.
So sorry for your loss. May Lou Ann dance with the Angel’s..You have been an amazing husband, as well as, an amazing caregiver! Rest in peace Lou Ann
Jeff I am so sorry to hear of the passing of Lou Ann. I also hope she is walking on that golden street where there will be no more tears. God bless, Jack Petrof
Your road has been long and hard.it’s the one’s that are left behind who will struggle.
I’m so sorry My love and deepest sympathy
To all your family. Elaine Bialecki
Jeff,
Lifting you and your family up in prayer. We are sorry to hear of the loss of your loving wife. May she find eternal rest with our Father in Heaven.
SORRY JEFF TO LEARN OF YOUR LOSS OF LOU ANN , MAY LOU ANN BE WALKING ON STREETS PAVED IN GOLD AND PARTAKING FROM THE TREE OF LIFE . I WISH YOU WELL JEFF