Ralph “Bob” R. Gobeli ~ November 1, 2022

Conesus Lake: At age 92, Bob passed away peacefully on Tuesday, November 1, 2022 at the Jewish Home of Rochester. He was born in Schenectady, NY to the late Ralph and Elizabeth (Hanrahan) Gobeli.  Bob is predeceased by his sister, Marilyn (Leo) Halloran and his brother, Murray Gobeli.  Survived by his beloved wife of 66 years, Geraldine (Hanna) Gobeli; his daughters, Beth Gobeli and Meg Gobeli; his grandchildren, Anthony (Shannon) Furino, Robert (Selena) Furino and Shannon (Larry) Umbaugh; along with his great grandchildren, Robert Jr., Emily Mae, Bryton, Lola, Francesca, Sean, Addison and Lawrence.  Bob was a wonderful husband, father, grandfather, great grandfather and he will be greatly missed.

Bob served his country in the Army during the Korean War.  He was a graduate of Syracuse University with an MBA in Computer Science from RIT.  Retired from Kodak as a Senior Systems Analyst.

Bob enjoyed traveling and being with dear friends.  Some for over 70 years while others for over 40 years with whom he still shared precious time and memories.  A great fan of Syracuse basketball and football while offering the coaches advice in a loud voice.  Most of all he loved and enjoyed his family.

Friends and family are invited to call from 10-12PM on Saturday, November 12, 2022 at the Kevin W. Dougherty Funeral Home, 21 Big Tree Street in Livonia, where Bob’s memorial service will take place immediately follow calling hours at 12PM. Interment will take place privately at Holy Sepulchre Cemetery in Rochester, NY.  Memorial contributions may be made to:  Planned Parenthood, 114 University Avenue, Rochester, NY 14605 or to a charity of your choice. To share a memory or a condolence, please visit: www.doughretyfuneralhomes.com

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14 thoughts on “Ralph “Bob” R. Gobeli ~ November 1, 2022

  1. We will miss Bob’s welcoming kindness. We have so many fond memories of our visits in Florida and at Conesus Lake. You were a great team Jerri!

  2. When we lived together Gerri at 756 Comstock Ave, and you started dating
    Bob, we all knew you had decided he was a keeper. I remember you two were tall, striking, and a very happy pair and often the last to say goodnight at curfew time.

    66 years is a wonderful number of years to have traveled through live together
    and raised your large family. I’m Sure the years have brought so many happy
    times to you all and I hope they will help in this sad time of loss. My sympathy
    to you all . And Bob…GoOrange!

  3. I am so very sorry for your loss Meg, Beth, and Mrs. Gobeli. Mr. Gobeli was such a warm, loving, and wonderful man! As are all of you. I have such fond memories of all the time I spent at your home as a child. Playing in your pool and with your beautiful dogs. We had so many sleep overs and parties together! Mr. and Mrs. Gobeli were always so very gracious, welcoming and entertaining. He will be greatly missed and forever in your hearts, and mine as well. My thoughts and prayers are with you always.

  4. I have such fond memories of Mr. Gobeli and his family. He always had such a big smile and him and his wife were always welcoming and kind.
    McPhersons point will miss you.

  5. Meg, so glad you were able to take the time to be with your Dad and family during this difficult time. The memories will live on in your heart, and I believe he will always be right there on your shoulder guiding you when you need him .

  6. Gerri & family, Gobi (as I called him) will be missed but will survive in wonderful memories by many people. Especially his humor and laugh. Fly with the angels Gobi.

  7. I am so sorry for your loss. Bob was such a wonderful man and I am so lucky to have been ‘adopted’ by him as an honorary ‘daughter’ on his winter trips through Blacksburg, VA on the way south for winter warmth while Meg and I were in Veterinary School. I looked forward to catching up as you guys came through town. Thanks for all the love and support and including me in your visits. You will be deeply missed by all. My love and hugs go out to Meg, Beth, Jerri and the rest of the dear Gobeli family. My thoughts are with you all during your difficult times ahead. Sending much love your way, Kris Hitt

  8. I am so sorry for the loss of your husband, father, grandfather and great grandfather. His home-going will leave a big hole in your family. It was my pleasure to get to know you’ll at Tony and Shannon’s wedding. Even though we only met that one time I have not forgotten the wonderful weekend we shared and have very sweet memories of it. My prayer is that God will comfort each one of you in this time of sorrow. May God bless each of you.
    Neva Wagner

  9. I’m keeping you all in my thoughts. Grandpa Gobeli was so kind and fun, and I enjoyed every time I was fortunate to spend time with him. I know he will be missed by many.

  10. Thinking of you all! I always remember how funny and how quick with a smile he was and how much he loved his family. God bless!

  11. My deepest sympathy to Gerri and the entire family. I remember the wonderful times at the Lake cottage celebrating the 4rth of July.

  12. Bob was a wonderful man of great character- always patient & with a supreme sense of humor. He will be certainly missed in our dinner group & July 3rd gatherings. He was a fighter up to the very end…I’m sure he is looking down on us with a smile & glass of CC in his hand!!

  13. Hoping the memories you keep in your heart will hold you close to your loved one..
    Hoping the promise that you’ll be together again someday will help bring comfort and peace.

    With Sincere Sympathy

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