Geneseo: At age 84, Al passed away peacefully on Wednesday, January 12, 2022 at the Jewish Home of Rochester, NY. He was born in Rochester, NY to the late Albert and Frances Stockslader. Survived by his beloved wife, Carol A. Stockslader, his children; Sandra (Phil) Recchio, Susan Smelt (John Ahlman), Michael (Patricia) Stockslader, his brother, Arnie (Ann) Stockslader, his sister, Carol Mattice, his grandchildren; Philip (Nicki) Recchio, Alex Recchio, Gabriel Recchio, Patrick Smelt, Rebecca (Aaron) Ward, and Jonathan Stockslader, his 4 great grandchildren; Leila, Avi, Mira, and Addison, and his chosen granddaughters; Scarlette Buckalew and Sebrina Trout, along with several nieces and nephews.
Al began his career in the meat business with the purchase of Zorn’s meat market on Thurston Road in the early 60’s. He owned and operated several markets on the west side before moving to Fairport, New York under the title of the Fairport Butcher Shop. He closed his market in the late 90’s after 35 years in the meat business. In his retirement years, he drove a van for Community Development Services and Boces 1 in Fairport, New York. He was attached to his clients and gave his time and resources to provide extra activities for them. He belonged to a variety of volunteer and fraternal organizations throughout his life, from the Volunteer Fire Department in Scottsville, NY, the Scottsville Lions Club and finally the Fairport Chamber of Commerce.
He officially retired to Conesus Lake where he developed his model train hobby, his boating skills, and devoted himself to his family, especially the grandchildren.
In memory of Al, please show a special kindness to someone less fortunate.
Al’s Funeral Service will take place at 11:00AM on Saturday, January 22, 2022 at St. Matthew’s Catholic Church, 6591 Richmond Mills Road in Livonia or can be live streamed at: http://facebook.com/stsmaryandmatthewfaithcommunity. To share a memory or a condolence, please visit: www.doughertyfuneralhomes.com
So very sorry to learn today, Jan 22nd, that Al has passed. My husband, Bob, knew him from the meat business many years ago. He will be sadly missed in our Conesus community. So sorry for his family. God bless, Pam & Bob Rice
Carol, I was deeply saddened to learn of Al’s passing. I have many fond memories of our years in the 19th ward, especially at WHS. When I last saw the the two of you at a Genesee St. luncheon I was aware that Al had some health issues. I would believe that the Jewish Home took very good care of him when he could no longer be at home. They have an excellent reputation. I talked with your good friend Doug Randall earlier this week after seeing the obituary and we shared a few good stories. You may know that Doug is dealing with some neurological health issues and is mostly confined to home. Please pass on positive vibes to him. Tom
Carol. George and I had so many good times with you and Al, and now we can think about all fun times we had and remember them. My prayers are with you and your family
Dear Cariol and family.so sorry for your loss. Remembering “Bummer” from Agnew Ct, St Monica’s, West High and our monthly lunches the last few years. We all loved him and miss will miss him tremendously. Don Heifferon
To Carol and the Stockslader family we send our deepest condolences for Al’s passing. We were thankful to attend the live-streamed service from St. Matthew’s.
Shirley looks forward to seeing Carol when circumstances permit.
Shirley Johnson and Family
Arnie,
Sorry for your loss.
Gigi Locke, R.G.&E.
To Carol and all the rest of Al’s large and loving family,
It was my privilege to have been part of that family and to have enjoyed Al’s kindness, good humor, and unique personality for more than 50 years. My sympathies to all who knew and loved Al.
Dear Aunt Carol and family – although time passes and families grow and we may not see each other, memories of Uncle Al, you and the family days at the cottage are forever in my memory. Those we great days, simple and wholesome and provided amazing memories. The loss of a family member is felt deeply and I send condolences to you and the family. Mom is doing ok. She is sad but also full of memories. We will be planning to attend the live stream services. With love and sympathy – Lisa, Larry, Eve and Lea and mom.
God bless you, Carol and family. Our deepest sympathy.
I am so sorry to hear of your loss. I have so many childhood memories at your house. My sincere condolences.
Sandra and Stockslader Family, Remember, as you go forward, to look up and smile often, your dad will be smiling back! May God provide you and your family peace, acceptance, and joy! Phil Ayer – Anchorage, AK
I am so sorry to hear of Al’s death. He always had a smile and a good story for me!
Al was a great guy with a great sense of humor. Juleen and I are sad to hear that he has passed. Our condolences to Carol and all the family. Good memories….
Our condolences go out to the whole family with a special “first grade teacher hug” for Rebecca!
Dear Carol ,
I am sorry that I will not be in the Rochester area to attend the service for Al and to offer you the support that you extended to me when Cliff passed away in 2015. You were the earthly angel that helped your husband find his way to the heavenly angels. God bless him, you, and the rest of your family. Pat
Carol and family,
Our sincere condolences for your loss.
So many great memories with him and all our family at the cottage at Port Bay!!
Dear Carol and family, so sorry for your loss. Keeping you in our thoughts and prayers. Rest In Peace, Al.