Conesus, NY: Daniel “Dan” Raymond Mulvaney II, 58, of Conesus, NY passed away from a brain aneurysm on Friday, April 16th, 2021.
Ask anyone in Livingston county (and the surrounding counties, too!), and they’ll tell you exactly what kind of man Dan was. He was a friend to all, always putting everyone else before himself. He was always willing to lend a hand, and he was always the first to ask how he could help.
Dan was a 1981 graduate of Livonia where he played football, volleyball, and sang in the Chorus, all while working to learn the ins and outs of the family farm. He was also a graduate of the two-year Agricultural Science program at Alfred State University in preparation to take over the farm.
He went on to run the family farm for nearly 40 years, milking cows twice a day, baling hay, harvesting crops, welding and fixing his own machines— 18 hours a day with no vacations. But the chores were never a chore for Dan— he loved being outside and was extremely proud to carry on the legacy of Mulvaney Farms. Even after making the decision to transition away from dairy farming, Dan maintained the land and the crops in partnership with his friend Adrian.
Dan was a lifelong resident of Conesus, and in 2019, he went to work for the Town Highway Department. This transition allowed him to continue working outside in the community he loved, while also affording him more flexibility in his schedule. He used that new schedule to his advantage, traveling to Europe, Chicago, and on many more local trips on the motorcycle with his beloved wife, Nancy.
His new schedule also allowed him to take up camping. Some of his fondest childhood memories were of camping with his parents and seven siblings, and he was able to rekindle that love in adulthood. Thanks to the guidance of his friends the Strollos, Sparks, and Loseys, he became an avid camper across the Finger Lakes region.
Dan loved everyone he met, but he held a special love for his children and especially his grandchildren. Of all his jobs throughout his life, his most cherished role was being “Papa Dan.” Tea parties in tiaras, hide and seek, flying kites, petting cows, and jumping in puddles were just some of his favorite activities. His home became known as “The House of Yes.”
Dan was predeceased by his father Daniel Mulvaney, his mother Shirley Donovan Mulvaney, and his dear cousin Jack Allen.
Dan is survived by his loving wife Nancy LoPresti Mulvaney; former wife Dawn Kornbau Mulvaney; children Kirstin Mulvaney, Tory (Byron) Danis, Jessica (Zach) Eason, and Donald (Stephanie) Hosie; grandchildren Kinley and Korbin Eason; siblings Marie (John) Henry, Ruthie (Fred) Nettnin, Becky Nau (Joe Zawadzki), Carol (Steve) Nichols, Margaret (Floyd) Watkins, Laura (Ken) Schoonover, and Robert (Bobbie Jo) Mulvaney; nieces and nephews Michelle Henry, Jennifer (Shane) Treuthart, Sheryl Henry, John Daniel “JD” Henry, Candy (Curtis) Gilley, Amy (Chris) Parsels, Mark (Melissa) Nau, Eric (Jesi) Nau, Josh (Sandra) Nichols, Dan (Shari) Nichols, CJ (Stephanie) Nichols, Sean (Hannah) Schoonover, Seth Schoonover (Kenzie Derleth), Makenna Mulvaney, Matthew Mulvaney, and Madelyn Mulvaney; beloved cousin and namesake Daniel “Dunk” Mulvaney; and many cherished grand nieces and nephews, loving cousins, neighbors, too many friends to mention, and one very special barn dog, Roxi.
A gathering of family and friends will take place in the summer. No formal calling hours or funeral service will be held. To honor Dan’s memory, the family asks that you have a beer, a glass of wine, or a cup of black coffee in his name; that you do something kind for someone in need; that you sign up to become an organ donor; and that you call the people you love and hold them close.
Dan’s activism and love of community stretched across so many different groups; it would be impossible to name them all. He lived his life to the absolute fullest, and he is now helping others do the same through his final gift of organ donation. In lieu of flowers, contributions may be made to UR Finger Lakes Donor Recovery Network, 30 Corporate Woods, Suite 220, Rochester, NY 14623, referencing Daniel Mulvaney on the memo line. To send a condolence or share a memory please visit: www.doughertyfuneralhomes.com
My prayers go out to the whole family. Dan was a sweet man . Peace..
Bob and I are so very sorry for the loss of Dan. We offer our most heartfelt sympathy to the whole Mulvaney Family. You’re in our thoughts and prayers and we will forever remember him as he is in that perfect picture in his tribute and in the last get-together outside at Shirley’s home. His life leaves much for us all to contemplate; a wonderful man from a wonderful family.
One of the finest humans I have ever met. He spread smiles and sunshine anywhere. The world, too soon, has lost a great man, full of love and humility. It was always the other person first. Fly high and happy.
Dan set an example of the impact someone can have on his family and community when they think of others first. I have many fond memories of Dan as a Bulldog at LCS. His positive attitude impacted all of us!
My heart breaks for the entire Mulvaney family. I’ve known Dan for a good part of my life and I can honestly say that I’ve never met a nicer person. His infectious smile will never be forgotten. RIP Dan!
I grew up in Conesus, daughter of George and Margaret Wood. We were good friends of Dan & Shirley, in fact my father took Shirley to the hospital when Margaret was born and hence that is where her name comes from. Even tho I didn’t know Dan, Jr., I have fond memories of the Mulvaney families.
Godspeed my friend
Condolences to the whole family for Dan’s Passing. I will miss you I always loved talking with Dan about the crops and farming in general. Dan was a first cousin to me and my sisters. I worked for a Ag Service for many years so I dealt with Dan on the farming part of his life also. Dan I know you are up in Heaven seeing your Mom and Dad. My parents and Nancy My sister. Plus many others. R I P my Dear Cousin
My deepest condolences to the entire Mulvaney family. I hadn’t seen Danny in several years but his contagious smile, bear hugs, and the twinkle in his eyes are in my heart forever. I have so many great memories of our fun times! I was honored to have him as a friend. God Speed Danny.
What a well-written beautiful tribute!! This precious loss hits pretty hard even though I haven’t seen Dan in a few years! His legacy will live on in many ways, however. His never-ending smile and caring heart is engraved on my heart forever. I am so very sorry for this wonderful family’s totally shocking unexpected loss. Sending many prayers!!
A great, great man………..
Sad to hear of your passing. You were one of a kind. Always friendly and kind. Thanks for the memories. Love you friend. Scott Williams
I am so sorry for the loss of Dan. My thoughts and prayers are with the family.
I have many happy memories of singing with Dan in chorus. He was so fun and full of life.
Dan was a true example of what God wants all of us to be, a giver to all humanity, right down his last act of organ donation.
May God Raise You Up Dan.
Prayers and blessings to the whole family.
Love,
Margaret and Mark Schuster
Sending prayers to the Mulvaney family in your time of sorrow. A great man and a great family!
Many blessings to his beloved family. And our prayers go out to Dan.
I loved the whole Mulvaney family…..everyone who knew them did! Dan was always a favorite. How very blessed they all were to have each other. The world needs more people like this fine family. I will raise a glass in your honor, Dan. God Bless you and your family for all the joy you brought to the rest of us. My condolences to the remaining Mulvaneys. ?????
My sons growing up always loved a trip to the farm around the corner from us. They could pet the cows, feed the chickens, collect eggs and chase the kitties. Dan and Nancy always welcomed us over at anytime. I’ll miss Dan’s jovial smile walking past the fields he was plowing. Rest easy now, Dan!
We are so sorry! What a wonderful tribute to a much loved and very special man.
Deepest sympathy
Our deepest condolences. Dan was a good friend to so many. He will be fondly remembered and sadly missed. Fly high Friend.
Dan was the very first neighbor we met here 25 years ago. Before we even moved in, my (city-bred) husband got his truck stuck in the yard … and whose tractor came to pull him out? We hardly ever passed the farm without a wave and a smile from Dan. Our family, our whole community, mourns your loss with your wonderful family.
Dan
you will be missed by so many for so many reasons and in so many ways. your smile was infectious and your love and care sparkled in your eyes. you are an inspiration and it was always a treat to see you. you and your family will be forever in our thoughts and hearts.
Dan was one of the first people we met as we moved to Clark road…. too many memories to post here but certainly our love for a certain horse was a passion for us…. He will be fondly remembered every time I saddle up! Love you Dan and I will take a gallop or two and have a beer!
Steve
Dan was a man who welcomed everyone with open arms..Always smiling & caring.. He will be greatly missed by so many.
Dan you are forever loved and hold a huge place in my heart. To the family, I am here for all of you. My prayers and thoughts for all of you are constant.
Truly a person for people to follow after! His passing is hardest on those left behind but his memory will carry on a very long time.
I’m so saddened. What a great loss. He was such a beautiful person. He will always have a special place in my heart. My sincerest sympathy to his family. His gift of life is so perfect.. He will be loved forever and always.
A true loss.
I have known Danny for some time , what a kind and hard working person, I would come see my brother Dave Coty during fair time and watch he and my brother work the fair. He will be missed by all.
This was hard news to hear. Our sincere condolences to all of the family.
Unconditional love lives forever in your heart, Tori.
Sending special hugs,
I’m so very sorry for your loss and the emptiness you all feel. Sending my deepest condolences and praying for you all during this confusing and overwhelming time. Paula Murphy
This is truly such a great loss to everyone that knew my Uncle Dan. He gave the best hugs, the sweetest kisses and had the most amazing genuine smile you will ever see (I always said he got it from grandma). He loved to have fun, joke around and was the best person in the room (this he got from grandpa). I remember the first trip the boys made to the farm, they were 3 and 1 1/2 and Uncle Dan took the out to the barn…later they walked in with “mud” up to their knees and no shoes ? Uncle Dan told me the city boys didn’t know the difference between manure and mud!! ?? So many great and cherished memories will always remain in my heart for this amazing man!! I love you so much and you will truly be missed!!
My deepest sympathies on Dan’s passing. May his family find peace in his memories.
So sorry to learn of Dan’s passing. I didn’t know Dan, but after reading this beautiful tribute, I wish I had. I know he will be dearly missed. God bless you all, you are in my prayers
We raise a toast of porter for you, Dan…and for you, too, Nancy…and for everyone who was touched by Dan, which are so many! A deep bow and a bellowing cheers to the absolute gratitude we have for getting to say that Dan was our friend in this life. Such a blessing to have had the privilege of seeing Dan’s huge smile throughout my childhood and adult life whether on the farm, across a dinner table (especially talking excitedly about the next tattoos we’re going to get!), or over at “Craver’s Hardware”…what a true gift! Sending and feeling so much love.
Laura and Meg. So sorry to read about the loss of your brother. How could he be anything but a great man after getting to know the two of you. You both are so kind and caring and I’m sure that carries over into your whole family. Again I’m so sorry for your loss.
Our sincere condolences to the Mulvaney Family
So sorry to hear about Dan! He was an awesome person and will be missed!
God bless you Dan, wish I had known the great person you were! Great Mulvaney ?
Love you bud!
Our deepest sympathy to Dan’s family, gone too soon. Many treasured memories of this fine family. Sue and Dick Kernahan
We are very sorry for your loss. Our thoughts and prayers are with your family.
I’ll will always remember playing baseball and using cow Patty’s as based. And making homemade butter in your kitchen as kids. Our families getting together for picnics. Just playing games on the front yard. Dan and Steve being out numbered by the girls. You will be missed RIP Dan
Sending much love and prayers from the Foote family??????
Dan, you will be sadly missed! Thanks for the childhood memories!
You WILL be missed!!
I love you Dan
I will cherish the happy memories of the trip to Europe forever. RIP my friend.
So very sorry for this loss. Thinking of his family.